I have been happily married for half a year, and we are not able to have children. My husband opted for adoption, and I said surrogacy. I have a problem with my uterus. I can produce eggs, but even if they are fertilized, which many of them are, we can never seem to keep a baby. With my doctor I have established what is wrong, I won't go into detail, but we are having trouble (my husband and I) deciding which way we are going to go. What do you recommend, having a surrogate mother or adopting.
Being an adoptive mother would be VERY helpful, but I feel as though I wouldn't have that connection with my child. I also would have to chose the s*x of my baby, which would be also very difficult...
What do you suggest for us? Please, I do not want any hurtful comments, this is a very difficult time for both my husband and I.
Thanks,
Emily L Troy (age 26)
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