Survey...Do you forgive .??

Question

Minor things easily.?

Or carry grudges for ages.?

Answer 1

As you get older and learn to do self healing it becomes easier to let go of  grudges.             This is how i see forgive.

      I give to my best friend all the time.  Finally, I asked her for a favorite. She said that she couldn't do it. I got mad and stop talking to her.  Then I asked myself this question. "what did i do to cause this conflict.?" The answer is,' I never ask for anything"  Now, I make sure it balance.  I give my friends a chance to give me.

Answer 2

Yes I do forgive minor things easily ! Life is too short to hold a grudge ! I find it easier to drop them in a great big hole in the ground !

Answer 3

I will always forgive if the person never repeats what they have done, but if they repeat it, then I do carry a grudge.

Answer 4

Forgive always....you'll have a more peacefull and relaxed life

Answer 5

i am a very forgiving person, no i do not carry grudges.......life is just toooooooo short!♥

Answer 6

I can forgive pretty easily

Answer 7

I'm terrible I'm a grudge carrier, Yes I know how bad I am.

I've been taken for granted too many times, It just got to be too much of a p!sstake.

Answer 8

Minor things is not a problem mate....other things can be.. in the end most things are forgiven unless its some prick whose really pissed me off.

Answer 9

Minor things I can forgive and  that is it, but major things forget it, I will hold grudges and never ever forgive, especially if it has something to do with my kids

Answer 10

I'm a 'forgiver' at all.

Answer 11

I sure do, right after I beat the c**p out of them.

Answer 12

minor things easily. betray me and i'll forgive but never forget.

Answer 13

Trust everybody once. Cross me and I'll never forget. If it's bad enough I'll never forgive.

Answer 14

I'm very forgiving of big and little things.

Never carry a grudge.

Answer 15

I will forgive, but I will never forget

Answer 16

the truth is that i dont know.

i mean, i tell people that i forgive them, but dunno.

i dont know if what i'm doing is forgiving or forgetting

Answer 17

yes i do forgive,its unhealthy to hold grudges because i think it does you more damage than the person you are holding it against,these things can eat away at you and take over who you are.just get on with it and enjoy life.x.

Answer 18

Forgive and move on..

what's the point of holding a grudge,

some people end up angry and bitter

all their lives

Answer 19

I can carry a grudge for a really long time... :P

Answer 20

Depends who did it, how much it pissed me off and loads of things.

Answer 21

Well, depends on who.  If it's my friend, then I forgive them easily.  If it's my sister, it's harder to forgive her.  If it's the popos, then I never forgive them.

Answer 22

Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.

I will forgive only if they do not do it ever again or if done by accident.  But big things or little ones done more than once, say thrice, will make me hold a grudge against you forever.

"Never forgive, never forget" - Gamesworkshop (I think)

Answer 23

Forgive and forget I say > grudges are a waste of time, they hurt nobody but you. Lifes too short

Answer 24

My reasonable aspect of character, which is intellect based says yes. However my experience shows me that my emotions tend to undermine that. I do and can forgive but it takes time and a long absence from the reason why I felt that way in the first place. My intellect is one thing but my feelings run deeper. So yes I can forgive in time?

Answer 25

I forget about 5 minutes after the fact.

My Mom does not, nor does she accept responsibility for her actions. We got in a HUGS fight and I left my vacation and come home early ; (

Answer 26

I'll forgive once, but if the same thing is repeated fo a second time, then i would hold a grudge