Suspicious about my little sister.?

Question

okay so a few days ago i went into my sisters room right after she left and it smelled so much like s*x and she has been acting really different lately like wearing appealing clothing. i really dont know what to do. i was actually really mad and was going to go yell at her but what if its not really true? how should i come across to her. by the way she is almost 14 a little to young to be having s*x. and parents really arent here for us so its my job to make sure that she is okay and watch over her. i just dont want her to make a mistake and get AIDS or pregnant or somethin cause that would mess up everything.

Answer 1

you have to confront her. I know she might not cooperate, but she has to understand what she is doing to her life. A lot of kids my age [im 13] do stupid things like that too. It's dangerous and dumb for kids to be like that.  She just needs to know the risks, but if she totally understands, I guess it's her decision.

Hope this helps.

<3louisee.

Answer 2

Why wait? It sounds like you as the older sister need to have "the talk" with her now. Explain about s*x, STD's, pregnancy, and birth control.

It's better to do it now, rather than wait till it's too late, and wish you'd done something sooner.

By the way, why aren't mom and dad there taking their parts in raising you and your sister? Guessing it doesn't matter, as it seems you have a good head on your shoulders to know that sis still needs looking after. If things get too much of a burden though, don't be afraid to tell mom, dad.. or another close relative that you need a bit of help.

That is what family is for afterall.  

Answer 3

I think you need to have a "s*x" talk with her. Tell her that she's a little too young for s*x, but you think she's old enough to know the potential risks it can bring. Tell her about protection, contraception, pressure, possible outcomes of having s*x. You need to really work in that you want her to be able to come and talk to you when she's ready for s*x.

Mississippi150

Answer 4

You need to keep a watchful eye on her....And if this behavior goes on for at least another week, then have a talk with her.......

Answer 5

Just talk to her about the birds and the bees it's almost time anyways.Or catch her in the act.but i'll see you go with the 1st part.

good luck

Answer 6

I wouldn't ask her if she's having s*x.  Just go ahead and talk to her about s*x and consequences and protection.  Good luck!  It sucks that your parents aren't doing this but good for you for looking out for her.  

Answer 7

First off, What exactly does s*x smell like?

Answer 8

Yeah you need to talk to her. I was doing things like that before the age of 14. I was f*****g my life up. I didn't know anything about making the right choices in life. It was my brother that talked to me and got me back on the right track. He didn't shout or yell just talked to me, listened to what I had to say and made the effort to get on with me.