Symphany or no symphany?

Question

I "used" to have this friend. she lives in my complex, getting a divorce, has a kid. I thought she was okay, until some parts of her personality came screaming to the surface and now I'm wondering if her hubby doesn't have valid reason for getting the heck away. She's overweight, works for the air force, adn complains when they make her do the minimum workout, ie: sprinting for TWO MINUTES. She would complain for ten minutes about how she had to have shots in her feet, it hurt so bad. Then she goes to KFC and drinks half a gallon on Captain Morgan's rum.

Then she gave my name out as the primary caregiver of her kid if she gets called to Iraq! In no way can my fiancee or I have time for this kind of responsbility, we work way too much. And she knows this and neither did she ask us this or did we say yes! She has got to be crazy if she thinks she can take the easy way out instead of the smart sensible way, like her exhusband or her parents. Then when we had to straighten her out, she screamed like a two year old needing a diaper change. Were we supposed to let her take advantage of us??

Symphany or no symphany? I'd love to know from ya.

Answer 1

Only for her poor kid and her tortured ex.  None for her.

Answer 2

Well she has enough sympathy for herself so no need to feel sorry for her!  You are under absolutely no obligation to care for her children and she was wrong to give out your name and information as the caregiver.  She sounds like she has some major problems not to mention some serious growing up to do.  Get your name removed from that document whatever it takes and stop all contact with her.

Answer 3

She has serious issues!  Anyone who drinks the way you say she does and then assumes neighbors will take her children, without asking them, if she gets deployed has more then a few issues.  Her children's father(s) would have the first right(s) to the children if she goes over seas.  

You can actually contact her superior about the situation.  They can talk to her about the problems and get her help if they deem it necessary.

Personally, I would have no sympathy for her.  She sounds like a real nut job!

Good luck to you and your fiancee in dealing with her

Answer 4

Wow, this woman is psycho and now you know why her husband got out. Absolutely no sympathy is warranted in this situation. Now is the time to be completely upfront with her and break off the friendship. And do whatever you have to do in order to get your name off the document.

Added note: Have you actually seen the document? Maybe she is just lying to you. But if you have, take it up with the Military, not her, anybody that is that psycho may be lying to you about removing your name.

Answer 5

Sympathy? h**l NO,SHE'S PSYCHO!

Answer 6

And she's in our US Air Force, wow where is her common sense. She needs to get back to reality and take care of things. Her immediate family is who should take care of the child. You need to check with the correct personnel and maybe put in a call to one of her family members, if you know them. This would be a HUGE responsibility and it should not be  put on your shoulders. Check it out and make sure that your name is not somewhere it shouldn't be.

Good luck!