TEENS; Do you parents trust you enough to let you sleepover or sleep in the same bed with the opposite s*x?

Question

I am interested on seeing how many parents make a big deal about it, and how many don't, and at what age it "no" or "yes"the most prominent.

So yes or no & yourage.

16;I am allowed to.

Answer 1

um.

like i stay at my friends and

her brother is there and he is

in our grade but just like brothers

or cousins or whoever live in

the house like i cant go stay at

a guys house!!!!

13 years young!

Answer 2

Depends on who, I did stay over at a (male)friends place with my bro and we fell asleep on the couch till the next morning but our parents know each other. I'm 14

Answer 3

no my mama wouldn't even let me sleepover my g*y best male friends house that sucks  

Answer 4

It is not a matter of wether or not they trust me.  It is a matter of whether or not it is appropriate.  I have never requested permission to sleep in the same bed with the opposite s*x, and I don't intend to because I think it isn't appropriate.

Answer 5

Or with a choice they don't want to take and are forced to. Without being grisly, its happened before.

Answer 6

My parents were totally against it, not because they didn't trust me but because they didn't trust the guys I hung out with. I started dating my boyfriend when I was 15 and unfortunately there was quite a distance between us... 2 and half hours! He came and saw me all the time.. and he was older, 18. My parents liked him but still didn't trust him... he was allowed to sleep over but wasn't allowed to sleep on the same floor of the house haha. I'm now 19, he moved to the city I grew up in and we moved in our own place together, but before we moved out together he lived with my parents, three younger sisters and I for about 6 months and we slept together... about a month before we moved out we found out that we were pregnant and are now blessed with our little princess who is due in less than two weeks!! My parents say they didn't like us sleeping together because of the fact I did have three younger sisters who saw that we slept together, but they are now so excited to be grandparents! :)  

Answer 7

HAHAHH! I'm 14 and my parents won't even let me have a guy over the house! I have to go through the 3rd degree every time I'm hanging out with a group somewhere that has even one guy in it!

Answer 8

My parents trust me pretty well, but they'd freak out if I did that.

It's just not a good situation to put yourself in. Especially if it's not someone you totally trust.

Of course sometimes there might be situations where it's necessary...but that wouldn't be often.

Answer 9

im 15 and if i wanted a guy to sleepover then she would let me but i might have to bed. she would let me lay in the ebd with him but i doubt she would let him sleep with me

Answer 10

i'm 13 and i'm allowed 2 =)

i sleep in the same bed with my frend all the time......

Answer 11

No. Of course, I'm only 13. My parents wouldn't let me until I move out probably.

Answer 12

well i have slept in the same room as 2 guys (one my age, one 3 yrs younger) and our parents were fine with that, but we've known eachother forever and we're like bro and sis.

i dont know if they would let me have any other guys sleepover. my mom might not mind, but my dad would prolly flip... lol.

Answer 13

my parents don't allow it.  The don't even allow it for my 19 year old brother! I think it's very stupid.  I'm not interested in having s*x right now so there's really no point for them to do that.

no, 14.

Answer 14

18 and no they do not allow me to do both things. Even I would not allow myself to do the second thing. Plus I don't think it's me that they do not trust.

Answer 15

No. I'm 13 and they won't even let me have a sleepover with a guy lol.  

Answer 16

Well my brothers, yes.

But unless the guy was unattractive, I wouldn't even trust myself!!!!!

Answer 17

Yeah I can sleep with my friends on a bunch of matresses on the floor,but not on the same bed...even though the matresses are so close it ends up being the same bed...oh and I'm 15.

Answer 18

Omg No...... I am 13 and my mom doesn't even let me sleep at my best friends house who is a girl and i know her since i was 7

Answer 19

im 14 and im allowed

done it atleast 5 or 6 times.

ive slept in the same bed as two guys before.

and zomg guess what!?

not one of those times did we do anything remotly sexual.

my parents trust me.

and my friends.

i dont know why parents make such a big deal about it..

Answer 20

lmao i used to have sleepover with my guy friend all the time but like idk if they would trust me with someone they knew was my boyfriend

if i was alone with them probably not but if liek there was other people around at least they would probably trust me

i think my mom would trust me

dad not so much

Answer 21

my boyfriend sleeps over all the time. if were at his hosue we sleep in the same bed but if hes here then he usually sleeps on the couch but not always. im 15 =]

Answer 22

15 and no .  Even if I was allowed to I probably wouldn't thats just plain weird to sleep in the same bed with someone who's only your friend.

My mom has let a guy friend sleep over my house, but he slept on the couch!

Answer 23

They trust me- a lot. I have yet to date a boy have my first kiss, drink, lose my virginity, do drugs and all that  bad stuff. But I don't think it's a matter of trust per-say. My parents don't want to put me in a situation that might have negative results where I might not know how to handle it. That's all. So no they would NEVER let me do this.  

Answer 24

I am 16 and am allowed, i think it's just the matter of your parents trusting you.

Answer 25

I'd never in a million years let my teenager have sleepovers or sleep in the same bed with the opposite s*x. What the h**l are parents thinking these days? I'm not sexually repressed, nor do I think this will prevent kids from having s*x at an early age, but what kind of example is this for your kids? 16 is too young no matter what, because when you have s*x, you risk pregnancy. Even if you're diligent about birth control, there's no guarantee. You may think it's not a big deal to have a baby young but that's a flaw in your 16 year old brain that any parent worth their salt knows. So they should therefore not encourage sexual activity. If nothing else, it's selfish behavior toward a potential human being. Being your kids' friend is not as important as raising successful, happy adults that make the world a better place. Letting this kind of c**p go on (on purpose) just sets a bad example and helps kids think only of themselves.

Oh, I'm 33 and became sexually active way too early in life (15)

Answer 26

no if my parents saw me in bed with my gf they would try to castrate me. they said they would and i have a feeling they actually would.

Answer 27

No.  I am 31 years old and a mother of 3.  It's not a matter of trust, it's about not putting your children into a situation where they may be presented with a choice they aren't mature enough to make.

Answer 28

well im aloud to sleep at two guys houses because i have know them since i was about 4 or 5 and they are like my big brothers but i wouldn't sleep in the same bed with them even if i was aloud to because it would be weird

im 13 the guys are 14 and 15

im also aloud to go to sleep overs with guys and girls

Answer 29

I was allowed to have boys sleep over, with a group, till I was 16. We had to sleep in my living room but my parents had no problem with it. Nothing ever went on either, I respected their trust too much.

Answer 30

i'm 12 and my parents definitely  wouldn't trust me because their really over protective

Answer 31

I say No to sleeping together with the opposite s*x.  However I think it is ok to have your friends sleep over just in different room and under supervision.  Thing is if your going to have s*x.  it can happen anytime and anywhere if they really want  to so if kept under supervision it shows you are trying to treat them with respect and hopefully they also treat your home with respect.  I am a mom of 3 teens