THIS DOESNT MAKE SENSE?

Question

so recently ive started hanging out with this guy i work with. weve been working together for 2 years but just recently started hanging out outside of work. he has a lot of issues cuz his dad died..and we both confessed to eachother we had major feelings. we talked for 3 hours on the phone the other night and the next day after he sent me a text saying that he didnt want to be involved with anyone..that he likes things in his life private..and that he wants to preserve our friendship. i odnt get it or what i did wrong??the guys all i can think of day and night and being around him theres this sort of magical love feeling..i just dont know what to do...i cant seem to keep myself from thinking about him!?

Answer 1

well jst becasue he says sumthing doesnt mean its gonna last or tht he even means it like tht, all u need to do is be there for him when he needs u, and things will work out anythings possible.

Answer 2

Sounds like he is just really to afraid to be in a seriouse relationship at this point, best thing u can do is to stay his friend but talk about how u feel and that way he will feel like he can be open to u.

Answer 3

Give him a little space to deal with whatever the issue is. He will either come around or someone better will come along.

Answer 4

Sounds like he started getting close to you and panicked.  Just keep being his friend for now, let him deal with his feelings!!  :@)

Answer 5

He's just not that into you.....move on

Answer 6

Its never a good idea to date someone you work with. He was just a little late in realizing it

Answer 7

sometimes it's not that you did something wrong but what he needs to do for himself

Answer 8

He just isn't ready yet.  Back off and give him time.

You didn't do anything wrong.