THIS ONES FOR YOU GUYS!!!!! BOYFRIEND TROUBLE I NEED HELP A.S.A.P

Question

So i have been with my boyfriend for 3.5 years now, and i mean like every relationship we have had our ups and downs. About 3 weeks ago we got into a huge fight over the phone and I told him i didnt want to see him anymore and for him not to be in the apartment when i got home that day. Well to make a long story short, i got home that day and we kinda ended up reconciling the arguement we had had. He stepped out to go to the store later that night and when i went to the computer i noticed a webiste already open called "MeetmeinTO". I checked the history and there was about 40-50 profiles of girls that had been searched. I called my boyfriend right away to ask what that **** on the computer was and he said that because i had told him i didnt want him at the apartment that night he wanted to find someone who wanted him. He said that he asked the girls for pictures and would call them s**y and talk dirty to them. I asked him if it was me, if i had done something to turn him off or if he didnt find me attractive anymore. He said no to all of the above and swore i was still the sexiest girl he has been with. Now guys here is my question. Why would a 28 year old man do this to a girl that he has been with for over 3 years. I cook every night for him, make him his lunch everyday, i clean the house every week, i bring home a very nice pay cheque also. I am crazy wild in bed and never complain to him about him burping or farting (lol). Why would he do this and what have i done do deserve this? HE says that he did what he did cause he thought we were broken up. I mean after 3 years its that easy to go and hook up that same day with someone? I care for this guy too much i think

Signed: Tired and looking for a real man!

Answer 1

Move on, he apparently is not into the relationship as you are. Can't even use the excuse that he wanted to get back at you. That would of taken a few day's cuz first he would be complaining to his best friend.

Answer 2

he's a jerk and wants you to be jealous.

it could be a number of things...

1. he really isn't into your relationship anymore and once given the oppurtunity, he made his move!

2. he wanted you to find that on the computer to make you jealous. by you telling him you dont want him anymore, and to leave, he wants to make you jealous by getting you to believe that he can find someone else to replace you.

if you made peace afterwards, its more then likely he just needed a power boost.

Answer 3

easy.  he's doing this because he's got a woman who will do anything for him, and he know's this woman (you) will let him get away with it if he cheats.  He doesn't have to put any effort into the relationship, and gets everything in return.   Nice job picking that guy!