TTC - Wierd Things Are Going On! All In My Head???

Question

Ok, here it goes!! (Possible TMI Going On Here!) For the past 4 or 5 month AF has come on the 3rd of the month like clockwork. Well this month I started spotting on the 5th and started the 7th. I calculated my O time to be around the 19th, so we did the BD on 14, 16, 21 and 24. We are usually better about our timing, but we had a death in the family that week so we had to put it off a bit. Starting 3 days ago, the 24th I have been cramping like crazy. Day 1 was sharp shooting pains near my right ovary and the past 2 days have been moderate cramping. Just enough to be uncomfortable and I feel sore down there I guess. Never felt like this before except when I am about to start. Do you think this could be implantation? I hope so, but I am also a little worried that maybe A- its nothing or B- ectopic pregnancy. I am not expecting my next AF till around Sep. 3-7th ish. Thoughts?

Answer 1

Well sweetie, I hate to say it, but there's not much help we can give you until your due for AF. Try not to stress, and take a test when you're expecting AF. I usually tested 1-2 days before AF was due, and it was always neg, even after AF started. ;) But this month, I tested 2 days before AF was due, and I got my BFP!! So good luck and BABYDUST to you!! :)

Answer 2

I totally understand how you feel...it is crazy not knowing! I am 3 days late and have had negative hpts...from my experience I have noticed that once I started trying to get pregnant EVERY, i mean EVERY, little sniffle, sneeze, pain, headache, yawn, etc....makes me wonder if I'm pregnant. It is sooo frustrating because you want it so bad, yet you have no control on the situation.  I know everyone tells you to don't stress...blah blah blah, but how hard is it not to obsess about it...?? I can't stop.  Anyway, my suggestions are:

1. could have been implantation yet most docs say we don't even know when it happens for the most part...but I swear I implanted on 8.20.08, but my hpts say NOT PREGNANT!

2. probably not ectopic because what I gather about that is ... it is quite painful and you wouldn't know it right away...? but i'm no doctor.

Good luck and I hope this is your month (and mine too!!)

P.S. is EVERYONE you know either getting pregnant or having babies now?? I feel everyone is but me....oh, and I run into pregnant girls all the time at the mall, grocery store, etc. it is sooo upsetting!  

Answer 3

Not sure how many dpo you are. I've always been told Implantation occurs 7-10dpo. From what I can tell you experienced this at about 3dpo, I would think that would be much to early for implantation. But ya never know you could of O'd earlier than you thought? Either way Good Luck!

Answer 4

I would say chill its probally all in your head. We all kinda go crazy and stress on it from time to time.