TTC and frustrated at the world.?

Question

tell me if any of this makes sense...

here's a quick background:

-30 day cycle

-last pd on 6/19

-ovulated 07/14 (cd 16) -- which is normal

-started mild "o" type cramping on cd20, 3dpo

-cd25 8dpo, mild nausea starts and continues

-cd28 11dpo, tender bbs, gassiness starts and continues

-cd28 also, o type cramping gets a heavier

-cd 32 af scheduled to arrive 7/19

after period never showed:

-nausea got heavier cd 34, ept certainty digital (-) with fmu

-everyday after cd 35, i felt wet, as if af was suddenly arriving, but nothing, bloating, continued with mild cramping and sore bbs.

-cd 36, clear blue easy digital (-) taken at 10pm

-everything continues

-cd39/40 very emotional, frustrated

-cd40 equate +/- .. (-) with fmu

here i am, on cd 41 24dpo. my doctor will not see me for 2 weeks, then she will do bloodwork. planned parenthood will not see me because if i am "pregnant, and the hpts were -, their urine tests wouldn't work either."

any ideas of what i can do?

Answer 1

have you tried taking the hpt first thing in the morning?  i think that hcg is highest then....

Answer 2

ok well I'm not all that great at the anacronyms with this but it sounds like you are 9 days late? With pregnancy symptoms. I would think that you are pregnant, but I would def try to take an at home test first thing in the morning when your Hcg's are the highest. I think that is frustrating to, to have to wait 2 weeks. I'd let them know if there is a cancellation sometime this week that you want the appointment. OTher than that good luck!!!

Answer 3

Wait and test again.  I know it is frustrating, but it is possible you are pregnant and the tests aren't picking it up.  It happens.  

The cramping, wetness and nausea make me think you really could be.  

Good luck!

Answer 4

The only thing you can do is wait it out. Frustrating, but it's really the only choice.