TTC and getting annoyed and depressed. ?

Question

we have been trying for a year and have had no luck i get really depressed and annoyed the day i get my period. it seems everyone around me is having babies or becoming pregnant and i have to pretend to be excited for them, when deep down I'm jealous and annoyed. does anyone else feel the same as me?

Answer 1

YES YES YES!!   I feel exactly like that...I feel for you and I'm so sorry.  It make life miserable.  I am going to the dr.  Aug 28th and he is starting me on clomid.  I can't wait and hopefully it will work quick because I'm ready.  Maybe you should talk to you doctor about it.  Good luck and lots and lots of baby dust to both of us~~~~~~~~~ :)

Answer 2

I have my fingers crossed for you!!

Just for the record I would imagine it's fairly natural to feel like that.  

Answer 3

I feel the same way. My husband and I have been ttc for over a year too. I just seen the doc for the first time last month. They put me on clomid and it didnt' work last month. So, we get to try again this month. I get so frustrated when my friends get pregnant so easily and I don't. I try to be happy but deep down, I am so sad and I am afraid that it is going to show. I don't want to hurt them, but it is like geez when is it going to happen. I want it to happen now. I hope it does  this month. Good luck to you.  

Answer 4

I have been TTC also and am feeling the same way. I got pregnant with #1 so easily after stopping BC, that it is so hard for me to understand that it doesn't always happen that way. We have been trying for a little while for #2, but because it was so easy the first time I'm having such a hard time emotionally! A lot of my friends started trying when I did and they are all pregnant and it is so hard to pretend to be happy for them! I mean, it is nice and all that they were successful, but I just wish that they would keep it to themselves. I feel so selfish even thinking that, because they are my friends, but I'm feeling so jealous too. I wish you the very best of luck!  

Answer 5

No 1 was conceived within 1 month (6 yrs ago) but TTC #2 for 9 months and still no news. 2 of my best friends had given birth to their no 2 & SIL is pregnant with # 5 of which they did not plan. I am really happy for them & not much jealousy since I am blessed with a healthy son but I wish TTC # 2 would be easier.

Answer 6

It must be really depressing to want a baby but you can't seem to be headed in the right direction. Take heart and be strong in this journey. Medically, it is said that if you try to conceive over a year, extra help is needed. A lot of times, many mothers have found out that there is something they have not done on their part or their partners to make this happen. Sometimes it could be a slight change and can make a difference between having your dream baby and not having one. I would recommend you read a book that gives you these simple things you need to work on and how to do it easily by Beth Kiley. It is called "Personal path to pregnancy" and you can see its review on this blog. I highly recommend it you read it and see if it helps

http://personalpathtopregnancy.wordpress...

The book also talks about how to conceive after miscarriages. Also talks about difficulty conceiving after BC pills. You may want to read the whole website and see what she describes.

Answer 7

i felt like that and was getting so depressed we stopped tryng and then the next month i fell pregannt not sure if its because we werent trying and was less stressed about it so id say stop trying and relax and enjoy each other and see what happens

Answer 8

Ugh, I know exactly how you feel. My hubby and I have been trying for 3 years with no luck yet. With DR appt after DR appt I feel like we are getting no where. Since we have been TTC I have been to about 15 baby showers. Oh my god, I wanted to die. I put this happy face like I'm so happy and etc. When I just wanna go home and scream. We just have to wait and be patient. God is making our babies EXTRA special. So the wait is worth it. I wish you the best of luck. I hope you get your BFP soon! Baby dust to you and to everyone else!!! Good luck hun.  

Answer 9

i was in the same boat until last week,i finally got my BFP,always there is a hope,i pray 4 u dear,i know its hard time,take folic acid,im sure it will happen 4 u honey soon

Answer 10

Yes and I feel even more jealous because I was pregnant but had a miscarriage so I would have had the baby before all of them. I have three VERY close friends pregnant, one step-sister and a friend of the family is pregnant. 5 people! We've been TTC for 10 cycles and I'm sick of the negative tests when I build myself up every time. Good luck to you and maybe try charting if you aren't. Maybe you're missing your ovulation day.