TWO-FACED friend that makes me look bad??help?

Question

so i haev this friend that im friends with at school ,were pretty cool and shes loud and cusses and is so cool when were at school with our friends but when ever we go to a party like a baby shower and like my mom is there and all the oler ladies and liek us cuz were teenagers I dress up but she dresses up so much and acts like shes so freaking pretty and cuz shes older then me she ditches me to go talk to my cuzins that are her age and she sucks up and acts liek she is a sweet heart and has low voice and doesnt even say one word but then i kinda get mad cuz im myself bu tthey dtart talkign to her and stuff ,once i was sittin gin a seat with the "group " at hte party liek teen group and i got up to get water she came late to the party so she dat next to her mom and the older lasies and she was in their conversation acting liek shes already 25 and laughing but when i came back she was in my seat ,UHHHH,and she ws talking to them and gossiping and being all goody good and they wer falliing for her,and i had to sit on the floor UHHHHHHHHHH,and now my cuzin is moving ,my cuzin is like her age and she is so cool but im afraid that shes gonna suck up to her and stuff and that my cuzin will like her better,i dotn know what to do ??I was thinking of doing what she does always look my best,be sweet and jsut go in the middle and cut her off and make her mad but it is so hard to maek her mad ,i wanna make a comment about her clothes one day cuz she always has something rude to say about my clothes,what she i say about her overdressingliek i have to make it seem like im trying to be nice but at the same time embaress her or make her mad

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Answer 1

yea that not a friend. you should just call her out about she is. u got to be REAL with her because he seems like when she around certain people she a new person yea i use to have a friend like that until i call his *** out  he never came around again.

Answer 2

I don't think she's two-faced. Maybe, maybe not, I don't know her personally. If she has an outgoing personality and cusses all the time, do you think it would be perfect if she went to that shower thing with you and act all rude? Maybe some of your family members would call her rude and whatever. She is just making an impression, even though you know her. I don't think your cousin will like HER better, since you are related to your cousin. I also don't think she is doing everything on purpose.

Also, if she makes rude comments about your clothes, make them about hers. If you dislike her soo much leave her. Or diss her up or soemthing and then leave ;)

Answer 3

just whenever she says something about ur clothes

just say look whos talking with an attitude or something

or diss her back like idk just dis her back when she dis's you

Answer 4

well i don't know how old she is.. .nor do i know how old you are.. and maybe she doesn't realize what she is doing.  i don't know.  If i were you i would just tell her exactly how you feel and what you don't like.. i'd just bring her to a room and tell her all the things she has done that has made you mad.  I mean as far as the chatting to the adults and stuff.. i mean you can't really hate on that.. from what you are saying she seems to be very outgoing.  And i don't know you... but maybe you should be the same outgoing person.  I wouldn't be rude or anything.. just engage in other peoples conversation if you are invited to.  If you don't want to then don't.. and let her do her thing and you do yours.  BUT i would say if she is your friend talk to her.. i understand venting and getting the frustration out.. but if this is serious you should talk and be the better friend.. and not hate on her behind her back.  You may find out she is not worth you being her friend..