Take a look at this "advice" that Cosmopolitan magazine is feeding women what do you think?

Question

this is from the march 2008 issue, page 198.

article on why men cheat

decide how invested you are if he cheats

" people who give up their relationships because of an act of infidelity may not have had much of a bond to begin with says dr ablow automatically bailing doesn't translate as loving-or realistic to me."

So a women who gets cheated on never really did love her man if she has some self respect and dumps her guy after she finds out that he cheated on her.

Who else agrees that cosmo is getting dumber and dumber? Its really funny the sh*t that they feed us women

Answer 1

wow.... it seems like they are saying  that women should put up with such c**p from men if they really love the guy. how about loving yourself and you will surely attract someone that will respect you enough not to cheat on you... i know that is the message i would want my daughter to be taught!

Answer 2

they think all woman are desperate to find and hold a man - wow - I've been married and in love for 8 years now 2 kids - but if that F**ker cheated on me I'd leave him.. I refuse to be an idiot who allows someone to cheat on me.  If they loved you they would never cheat on you - that is a fact.

Answer 3

Not that I am saying you did, and no I have not seen the rest of the article and can not really comment on whether it is or not but....

It sounds to me as if the quote is taken out of context. NO one in their right mind could possibly take a comment such as this seriously, right?!

Infidelity DOES mean that a health check on the relationship is in order and you need to examine how you have treated him as well as the other way around. It does not indicate weakness or lack of respect for oneself if you decide to work it out and try again.

However, serial infidelities should be dealt with by leaving them to love the only one they can....themselves.