Taking a shower with a little girl... is it wrong xD?

Question

I'm 20 and my 6y/o little sister wants to take a shower with me, becuz she wants to play with me with her 'bathroom toys'.

So, is it wrong? I'd wear boxers of course.

Well, greetings from NH, US!. Ryan.

Answer 1

ermmm, im not sure, why dont you get her bathroom toys out of the bathroom and play there? or, fill the bath up halfway and muck about with them in there hope it helped!

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Answer 2

my 16 yr old and 13 yr old sons sometimes bath with their 6 yr old sister and 2 yr old brother and they wear boxers too! They put the jaquzzi on and play with toys and have fun! it is not wrong, esp if you wear boxers!

Answer 3

So go play in the pool with them, not the tub.

Answer 4

yes wtf!!!

Answer 5

It's a sad world but some people would say yes. I don't think so but maybe get her to wear her swim-suit leave the door open and have your mum and dad either within the bathroom or near. It's not that you're doing anything wrong it's how it;s interpreted by others. To be completely safe... I probably wouldn't do it. It could be like chinese whispers if she mentioned it at school and could be absolutely horrendous. Maybe not worth the risk

Answer 6

maybe try letting her sit in the bathtub and you out side the tub or maybe try taking her to a pool and play there , put on your bathing suits and turn on the sprinklers just  few options  

Answer 7

I think that you should fill up the bath tub and the two of you can put the toys in and play outside of the tub.

I would find it very strange to shower with your little sister.

Answer 8

Me personally I Think it is wrong. How about putting her in the tub and you setting outside of it to play with her. That way she gets what she wants and you are not made to feel uncomfortable.

Answer 9

yeah its weird.

bath her....and play with her and her toys there.

Answer 10

why don't you have her suit  up and sit in the bath and you sit outside the tub and play with her "bathroom toys"  I wouldn't take a shower with her if that gets out to other parents that you are showering with her that can open a bad can of worms

Answer 11

yes! use a bathtub

Answer 12

It is not wrong! She is your sister and if you are just playing then there is nothign wrong. But maybe explain to her that we can not do this all the time. Tell her next time she can be in the tub and you can be on the outstide or take a bath in your swimsuits together!

Answer 13

Hi

My bro is 9 years older than me and we used to bath n shower till i was about 8 and we are none the worse for it, sadly though in todays society no matter how innocent it is to you ur sis and ur family there are some ppl that will make a big thing out if, esp if she mentions it to a teacher or summit, so its probly best not too i'm afraid.

Answer 14

You are brother and sister. You are wearing boxers. Why would it be wrong?

Answer 15

it might be a little gross. but i guess if you wear boxers that should be ok. i used to take baths with my nephew but i was a lot younger....but i think it should be fine. if ur mom thinks its ok have at it

Answer 16

i dont think its wrong;

but some people might find that nasty & perverted

cause she is a minor. even though she is ur lil sister.

i guess it juss depends how you look at the situation.

Answer 17

No Ryan it isn't ok, you ask alot of questions about what you should be doing with your little sister

Act your age, your 20, any fella at 20 should know, sister or not that you dont shower with a child

Answer 18

ummm.. i wouldn't recommend it.. but its up to you tbh

Answer 19

Well you wont be doing anything else........WILL YOU???

Answer 20

she is only 6 - you have two options. i dont see a mega problem as long as you are covered up. the other option is to explain to her that because she is a big girl now, your not really supposed to have a shower with her. i have a 6 yr old daughter, and in all fairness, the only way i manage to get her to do something with out a scene is to make her think what i want her to do is her idea - my hubby and i call it planting the seed!! we drop hints etc and when she says " i know, why dont i do....." we praise her for such a great idea!! believe it or not, it works.  you could try it by saying something like " you know your friend..... well, she goes for a shower on her own cos she is 6 yrs old  and a very big girl...." hopefully she will say that she is a big girl too and wants a shower on her own too

Answer 21

If you had asked this question 20 years ago people would have thought you were daft for even asking, its the society that we are in that makes us feel insecure about hings, as long as you are not doing anything wrong then i dont see a problem with it, but i would wear boxers as your little sister may tell stories and this could lead to a whole can of worms being open. joanne

Answer 22

I dont think that is apporiate!  

Answer 23

wrond, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong.