Talk to me about g*y adoption and why you're all so afraid of it?

Question

I have seen so many married men come out of the closet at midlle age and totally ruining the lives of their spouse and kids whom supposedly they wanted badly enough to hide their truth.

I find this despicable but more importantly I find it totally unnecessary when so many kids go without any parents. It's tragic. I know at a basic 6th grade biology level that my parents were sexual beings because My brothers and I all share family resemblances.

You never would have known that they were sexual by their conduct in front of their kids though. Thats what good parents do isnt it? I mean they kissed of course but they never made out on the couch or anything.

Why does everyone assume that g*y sexuality will come through in the parenting? Straight sexuality doesnt. I should know about that. My dad railed on g**s and made jokes all the time

Kids wil be g*y if they are disposed to be. some of it is nature and some is the choices people make about the company they want to keep.

Answer 1

I don't really have an issue with it. I think that there are people that who can't help be g*y and then there are people that do choose to be g*y and i'm okay with either or. I think most people just worry about the kids with g*y parents. Nothing with how much they will be loved or taken care of, at least not me. I worry about how hard it will be for them in school and in life. This shouldn't be an issue but it is. Those children will have a harder life because they will be made fun of. Not by everyone but there are always those people that just LOVE to make other's lives miserable and get pleasure from this.

Answer 2

No one is disposed to be g*y. Thats why there are penises and vaginas. There is nothing natural about being g*y. Just because you want to willingly do something so immoral, doesn't mean you need to drag some poor kid into it. Do you know how that is going to affect him growing up?

Jerk

Answer 3

The premise of your question is wrong.  There are not many people who are "afraid" of of homosexuals adopting.  It is simply the fact that it is wrong.

Couples (man and woman) are created to be together as husband and wife, not wife and wife or husband and husband.  It is hard enough on a child that they are adopted.  No matter how hard a parent tries, their child will always have issues with it.  If you dump on top of this that 2 sodomites adopted the child, that is just piling on, and the child suffers the worst.  All this is aside from the immorality of the "relationship".

Answer 4

I don't have a problem with g*y parents as long as they are good parents.I would much rather see a set of g*y people adopting children than the kids be in foster care. Kids need to be loved and taken care of no matter by who!

Answer 5

If you want to adopt a g*y kid, by all means go for it.  It's a pretty specific request, though... so I'm wary of your motives... but hey.

Answer 6

Its such a taboo topic.... people are just ignorant... a good parent isn't necessarily 'straight'.  I know g*y couples that have had children of their own (mainly lesbians) whose children have grown up to be great adults, they didn't turn g*y just because their parents were.

g**s are loving people who have a lot of love to share with some child that was unwanted by its biological parents and I don't believe that sexual orientation should be a factor in adoption.

Answer 7

I am not afraid of it.  People have their weird thought that g*y is also equal to Pedophile, which it is not the same thing in the least.

If two stable people that love eachother want to have a child, then they should.

Answer 8

You should never adopt a g*y kid. I mean for example if anyone comes over and they have a little son. So then the guests tell their child to go play with your child. And what game will both of them play? Even if the second one isn't g*y, he'll still play the game for some reason.

Answer 9

If I was a birth parents I would not wan to put my child up for adoption for a g*y couple. It's not the turning g*y thing, it' the stigma I'm afrian it'll attatch to our child

Answer 10

Love is the most important thing in life.  If your parents love each other does it matter if they are both men or woman?  What the parents are modeling is how to have healthy relationship with another adult.  If it were true that kids learn only from their parents then there really wouldn't be any g*y children.  I know I would  rathe have grown up in a home where my parents loved and respected each other regardless of their sexual orientation instead of an abusive "straight" family.

Answer 11

I don't get g*y people. Adults don't have a choice but kids do? I'm sure seeing your parents holding hands and valentine's day won't really help the kid's view on what's normal and what's logical.

Answer 12

what ae you asking? call roise

Answer 13

I don't see a d**n thing wrong with it.  Only the holy rollers freak out about it.  A homosexual couple can provide just as stable of a home and just as much love and moral values as a straight couple can.  Being raised by g*y or straight obviously does not mean you will be one or the other by what you see.  You are born that way.

Holy rollers out there:  put that in your bible and eat it.

Answer 14

LOOK MAN NO MATTER HOW YOU APPROACH THIS YOU ARE NOT GOING TO WIN !!! MEN HAVE A p***s AND WOMEN HAVE A v****a AND WELL IF YOU CANT FIGURE OUT THAT THEY FIT THEN DON'T REPRODUCE PLAIN AND SIMPLE !! IF PEOPLE WANT TO BE L*****n OR g*y FINE BUT NO FRIGGING KIDS FOR THEM. PERIOD ,GAME OVER CASE CLOSED ZIP UP YOUR FLY AND GO HOME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... DON'T LIKE MY ANSWER THEN DON'T ASK SUCH A QUESTION!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Answer 15

I don't think I have anything against it necessarily...

I think that it would be hard on the child though if they weren't in a really tolerant community.  The chilled could be ridiculed in school...and might be even when it is tolerated.

There are a lot of families that are messed up, and a lot of parents that shouldn't be.  However, the family hides it so they still look "normal" to the outside world.  The differences in a g*y relationship are front and center--for all the world to see.

I also know that kids model their parents, regardless of the orientation that they were born with.  So, if the kid is straight, there may be a lot of education that the child will need to make their own choices about a mate.  On that front, if the parents do their due diligence on that, I don't have a problem.

Answer 16

ignorance and fear go hand in hand.  you need to talk to your partner and go from there.  i read in one of your answers that community has a lot to do with it.  children in school can be very cruel, mostly coming from parents at home.  whatever your decision will be i hope for the very best for you and your partner.

Answer 17

I am all for g*y adoption. I think theres a lot of g*y people out there who have the ability to be far better parents than other straight couples.

I just think they should be given the chance and the same rights as straight couples.

Answer 18

I completely support g*y adoption, there are so many children that need homes. Who gives us the right to judge a couple that might be more qualified than straight couples who actually have children.

Answer 19

Anyone who can pass the rigorous checks and tests and the invasion of privacy that it takes to adopt should be able to adopt a child.  Anybody can breed a child and some of those people will abuse their children horribly but no one disputes their right to breed.  If you can prove that will provide a good, stable home without abuse, what you do in the privacy of your bedroom in no one's business, the same as it is no one's business in a heterosexual home.