Talking with my future wife...what woman suggest?

Question

I was reading the book: Why men dont listen and women cant read maps.

I am a man and will be marrying a woman in distant future. After reading the book,i have learned one thing regarding how to develop relationship with my wife.

1) I have learned that me and wife should talk/communicate a lot everyday to develop bonding/relationship.

2) I have learned that i should listen to my wife everyday so that she feels good without offering her solutions to her problems.

The book says woman just want to speak with someone close without that person offering solutions.

3) I have learned that i should not force my wife for s*x and before starting s*x, i should talk sweetly to her and engage in lot of foreplay.

4) I have learned that i should be a good father to her (and my) kids.

5) I have learned that i should give her flowers, chocolate and wine frequently.

6) i have learned that i should be totally committed to her.

7) I have learned during her periods, she is tired and i should step in and make food, clean house and take care of kids. Basically help her a lot during her periods.

8) I have learned i should have good humour sense to make my wife laugh.

9) I have learned to appreciate her by giving her details. Example: If she asks me how she looks in a new dress, i should say:

Wow..Thats great. You are looking amazing. Turn back...amazing..this colour suits you. Your hair style is matching your dress..you look wonderful..simply amazing.

Have i learned the right things from the book? I want great relationship with my future wife.

Woman advise needed.

Answer 1

erm, cant you just be yourself and not false ?

Take a bit of advice and just be normal, its a great turn on for a woman to be with someone thats not freaky and over the top.

Answer 2

No women trun you down.you going to be wonderful husband and father one day,i like your positive sence.

Answer 3

For real? wow your whipped!!!!   Call my husband and let him know he needs to read that book ok?  Actually don't because a man like this is a turn off to me.  More of a wuss than anything. I would say out of your list communication, sense of humor, being committed to her, and being a great father to your kids are of importance.

Answer 4

Sounds about right but make sure your wife returns all the favors.

Answer 5

You are going to make a great husband..here is a few tips..tell your future wife that she is beautiful everyday somehow, she will appreciate this. Also I think a lot of married couples sometimes forget to act like each others friend, be there for here whenever she needs it. Dont scream, cuss, or yell at her!  

Answer 6

Wow!  Sounds great!

Answer 7

That sounds really good so far.  I think I'm going to have my husband read that book!

Answer 8

Yes, you'll do well.

Answer 9

does that book say anything about real love?

Answer 10

Would you marry me?

However, you can drop no. 9-or just just change it to "you're always look great for me hun".