Tarot question for experienced readers?

Question

ok I am looking for a card to signify a man who is 53---blue eyes--salt and pepper hair (mostly dark and curly) and born under the sign of Aquarius.

The King of wands is blonde/blue but the signs do not mesh---and the king of swords is aq. but the looks do not mesh.

Personality: smart, affectionate...controlling....and nasty if crossed. But he is not nasty otherwise...very into cars and collects watches...

just trying to give a bit of back round because I struggle with this each time I do a reading....thank you!!

Answer 1

King of Cups:

The King of Cups is depicted as a mature, fair-haired man, seated on a throne and holding a cup in his right hand and a sceptre in his left. Here is a man who is "all heart". The king of cups card usually depicts a mature man who appreciates the finer things in life such as music and art. He can be warm-hearted and kind. The image usually has some reference to the sea or water, water being the element connected with the suit of Cups. In the Rider-Waite deck, for example, the sea is pictured surrounding the throne, and a stylised dolphin and ship are depicted in the background to its side.

The divinatory message of the card is of a fair-haired man or one associated with Art or Law. It may also represent a man who is favourably disposed towards the querent or, in a more abstract sense, refer to the arts and sciences or any sphere which involves creative intelligence.[3].

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The personality of the King of Cups is a combination of the positive nurturing energy of water of the Cups suit and the active, outward focus of a King. The king of cups can be a wonderful guide and mentor as he is usually a giver of unselfish aid, albeit one who is easily angered. He cares about others sincerely and always responds to their needs with compassion. He heals with a gentle touch and a quiet word. He is usually tolerant of all points of view and shows patience in the most trying of circumstances.

The king of cups believes in using diplomacy rather than force, but can be tiresomely devious if you cross him, as he is usually big on emotionality. The king of cups almost

Answer 2

I would have to say the King of Swords for personality/character and his sun sign Aquarius is the element of Air.

I don't feel that looks are necessarily important here as it depends very much on which Tarot deck you are using - they are all so different.

Answer 3

Hello

King of Swords

Sadhara