Taurus guy - help me understand him?

Question

I been seeing this guy for over three months. When we started dating everything was perfect and he was texting and seeing me all the time. The last three weeks he became cold, doesn't really text (only to know if I am out or what am I doing) but when I ask him what is wrong he says everything is ok. When we do talk mostly he wants to talk about s*x. He doesn't even ask me how has my day been anymore. He says he loves me and wants to be with me but he finds it difficult with the attention I get from men when I go out even though I told him I would never cheat and am only his. I am starting to think he doesn't really want to be with me anymore but at the same time he doesn't want me to be with anybody else. All this is really upsetting me and I don't know if I should just let him go. Please help...

Me -

Sun - Gemini

Moon - Virgo

Asc - Virgo

Venus - Cancer

Him

Sun - Taurus

Moon - Cancer

Asc - Gemini

Venus - Cancer

Answer 1

I agree with Sandstorm's answer. Being Taurus has nothing to do with his behavior. I'm a Taurus.

Don't be so emotional. Men understand s*x, sports, food and money. Everyone says they don't wanna play games. Well honey, life is a game.

If you've asked him whats going on and he says everything is fine, there's 2 routes you can take....

ROUTE #1

A lot of times men don't understand talking (they hear blah, blah, blah).  You have to show them, for them to understand.

Going forward, give what you get. If he's being cold. Avoid him. Don't call him. But when he does call you, be nice as pie. Act happy go lucky. But act busy (like you have all sorts of stuff going on. Also, don't make yourself so available. Don't answer or return all his calls. You're a busy girl and you have a life outside of him.

ROUTE #2

Sit his *** down and put all your cards on the table. Tell him exactly what the problem is and what you want from him. Tell him what will happen if things dont change. See what he has to say for hiself. (Don't get too emotional and don't make it a long, drawn out ordeal). Taurus people hate long talkers and are easily aggrivated by overly emotional people.  

Answer 2

i went out with a taurus guy a few years ago (although its only recently i realised he was a taurus cos i was never really into starsigns etc at the time) but i found him very affectionate and very attentive at the beginning of the relationship, it was as if there was noone else in the world besides me.  we did everything together, he would ring me every day and night, beg me to meet him etc.  it was so romantic and wonderful until one day it all changed.  he still rang but wasnt bothered whether we met up or not as long as we met up at the end of the night.  then i heard that he was doing the dirt behind my back, i was devastated, it was a shock to get after all the previous attention!  after confronting him i didnt see or hear from him for about a week, so presuming it was off i went out like any single girl would do with my friends to enjoy myself a try to forget about him.  i met up with another guy i knew a few weeks later and when my taurus guy heard about it he hit the roof and was back by my side like a bang!!  he couldnt believe i would want to be with this other guy and not him.  anyway this went on for a long time after that, going back and forth to one another until eventually i got so sick of it cos of what it was doing to my head.  

i'm not saying every taurus man is like that but all the ones i know are, sorry taurus men!!  although i will say they are a great laugh and i do get on very well with them.  i know you cant judge a man entirely by his star sign but all i'm saying is dont waste a large chunk of your life wondering about this man cos believe me it will eat away at you.  i would never ever ever go back to where i was with my taurus man again (besides the fact that i am now happily married) but even if i wasnt i couldnt do it to myself, say goodluck to him and move on if things cant be sorted. good luck

Answer 3

Talk it out with him is my advice as Taurus people can be stubborn and opinionated.!!!

Answer 4

being taurus has nothing to do with his behavior. just talk this over with him

Answer 5

Hi Suzy

Venus in Cancer shows your innermost desire and wants from a relationship. You want a person who offers emotional support or a shoulder to cry on. You care for one's comfort and cater to one's emotional needs. Cuddling and coddling is part of you and this is what you have to offer but , you also need this in a partner. You pamper the one you desire and cater to their comfort , make them feel at home and secure.

You value family traditions and you bring this in a relationships as well as an interest in family life generally.

Your placement of Mars indicates the people that you attract or that are attracted to you. Sometimes, your needs and desire are not always met which accounts for different planet placement in different signs.

Answer 6

Give him more attention...........?

Maybe your loosing him?

This is a tough one.