Teacher crush help!!!!!!

Question

So my best friend is only 16 and she has a huge crush on our English teacher :( at first i thought it was nothing but now its too much.

hes all she talks about now,and flirts with him during class...and think he even goes along with her sometimes...idk what to do, its been going on for like 2 months and a half, she won't even pay attention to cute boys our age.any advice? thanks.

Answer 1

Wow that's some problem we've got there. Just exactly how old is the teacher? But in any case that's not really the problem here. Teachers and students are prohibited to have a romantic relationship with each other. So I'd tell your friend not to get too attached to the teacher. I mean it may sound stupid for having a crush on your teacher at 16 but times like this it could possibly be a serious thing. Not only could the teacher get fired (if he does go along with your friend's flirts), she could also get kicked out of the school or get suspended for a long time.  Relationships like these are just not meant to work out. I would tell her this and tell her that if she really does like the teacher then she should stop thinking these sorta things or else he will get fired. She should most likely take your advice because if she doesn't you can explain to he that if anyone else finds out that there is some sorta "relationship" going on between them, she'll never see him again. Not to mention he'll be ridiculously embarrassed and talked about within the school. He also may never get into the teaching career again because of this experience.  

This is only my advice though. It's up to you whether or not you should tell her this, and intervene between who she loves, but for the right reasons. It could also either strengthen your relationship with her or completely break it.  But if I were you, I don't care if I do lose a friend if I think, and my heart and conscious thinks that I'm doing the right thing then I will tell her. So think about whether or not you wanna take action to this at all.

In any case I wish you the best!

Answer 2

Tell her to chill out.  She cannot date an older guy so there's no hope for the relationship.  The thing you should state to her is if she keeps that up he can file sexual harassment and she'll never see him again.  Another thing I would suggest is hooking her up with a guy her age and seeing how it turns out.  

Answer 3

bas situation. most kids go through it. but if the teacher is responding, it is illegal. but you have to be 100 per cent sure, otherwise u will cause trouble for him, her and yourself. if he is not, then just drop it. she will get over it sooner or later.