Teacher is creepy? help?

Question

I already asked this beffore, but I have more stuff to tell, so bear with me.

I have this teacher that is always STARING at me. In the halls, during class, ect. He just creeps me out.I dont understand cause im not even that pretty. I dont dress like a s**t. My b*****s arent that big (smallish to Average sized i'd say). There are plenty of gorgious other girls in the class. Why is is staring at me?

also, today he gave us a seating chart. He clearly had a boy girl boy girl pattern going, but when he got to my name, he broke the pattern to put me up front. Then he went back to girl boy girl boy.

I dont know what to do cause he hasnt really done anything wrong. Just creeped me out. And I dont want to talk directly to him cause I dont want to be in a one on one situation.

Answer 1

I would contact the principle or tell your parents. If nothing else suceeds, then maybe to the teacher with your friends with you.

Answer 2

2 things if hes creeping u out tell him to back off or avoid him best you can or get a friend to be with you when your in areas that are most likely to be near him second sweetie you might be prettier than u give urself credit for

Answer 3

Maybe ask your local police to do a sting where you guys are on a one  and one by yourselves.Or keep a tape recorder just in case he says something to you thats not good.

Answer 4

Talk to your school councillor, or some one in authority, try to make sure that your claims can be proven or at least ask the councillor to look into it

Answer 5

(A little long)

Sounds like your teacher favors you.

I can totally relate to you! I had a teacher/principal just like this. He did the same thing to me and I think I was the ugliest girl in class as well. Although, I'm sure you're beautiful because a lot of people say they are not when they are.

Back to business...Your teacher sounds like he likes you. My teacher used to stare at me and always tried to make jokes to make me laugh and be uber friendly. At the beggining of the year I was fine with it because that way I was able to butter him up to help me out with some bad grades that I had.

As Senior year progressed on, I and my classmates realized how creepy he was and seemed to always favor me (and some other select girls too). I really didn't like it anymore. I kept thinking the principal had a crush on me and the kids joked about it. I really was disgusted with the idea, I avoided him whenever he'd pass by in the halls. He'd always try to talk to me.

Really, I thought he was just trying to be friendly. He saw me as a weaker student and just wanted to help, this is what I found out in the end of the year, even though he still remains a creep to me. So for you, it could be that your teacher favors you, I can't pinpoint if he likes you in that way (which is really uncomfortable I understand) but if you think he does, really it's not the best idea to talk to him. It will be awkward. Just take advantage if he does favor you so you can do well in his class. It really helps.

Best tell a councelor or a parent if this is really making you feel uncomfortable.

As long as he didn't do anything offensive to you, you don't need to speak to him about it.

Answer 6

you should tell the school counselor or principal because if it's clearly documented when it's just staring and odd seating arrangements, (the creepiness is starting) you will have a paper trail later on when it becomes criminal. then the cops get him.

Answer 7

Tell your perents, they'll know what to do.

Answer 8

He hasn't done anything? He creeps you out. He stares at you. He broke the seating plan to put you up front. He's harassing you in a very sutble way. And that makes you feel uncomfortable. He has done something.

You need to speak to your parents and the principal. Speak to your parents tonight and set up an appointment as soon as you can with the principal. If your parents can be there, it would help. The school counsellor may be involved, too. His harassment is unacceptable from him, no matter the situation, no matter the reason. After you've spoken to all of these people, there are 2 things you can do :

1. transfer out of his class today;

2. find other paths to take from class to class that will not put you into any contact with him.

The transfer should be easy. It happens all the time. If avoiding him becomes impossible, you'll have to confront him and tell him in no uncertain terms that the school and your parents know, and the next step gets the police involved.

Good luck!

Answer 9

While I understand everyone's concern and advice to tell the principal, parents, etc.  I have a major issue with this.

First, while I understand that he makes you uncomfortable, he hasn't done anything criminal.  There is nothing illegal with staring (if he is in fact doing so - I am not calling into question your truthfulness, just your perception).  There is nothing wrong with having, what's called in the teaching field, preferential seating for a student.

Second, I am not sure what you would "tell" these different people. What you've told us?  He's creepy?  There have been many people in my adult and professional life that have made me uncomfortable - and guess what? I've still had to deal with them.  I've avoided them when I could, and I deal with them professionally when I have to - end of story.

Third, your implied accusations are a BIG deal.  You are talking about a person's career, life.  I'm just saying, make sure you know what you are doing.  

Last, I know my answer is not going to be a popular one.  I don't care.  But realize, I am not suggesting you leave yourself in a bad situation (which would be alone with him), I am just suggesting that sometimes things in life aren't always as they seem.  

As for the person who suggested that you switch classes, because it is "done all the time."  Actually, it is not and it can be very difficult to switch an entire schedule.  

However, with all of this said, if you feel the need to tell someone older than you, who you trust - do so.  Also, if you feel like something WILL happen, document the things you've told us, and definiately tell someone.

Just remember; there are three sides to every story/situation; yours, mine and the truth.  Best wishes and good luck this school year.