Tears on my guitar situation :( Please help!?

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tears on my guitar situtation.. :(?

Hey i dont know if anyone watched or listen to the tears on my guitar video/song..but anyways..

Im so in love LOVE LOVE with my bestfriend that it hurts :(

He is so comfortable around me that he could tell me anything, even

when it comes to crushes and i hate it. I bite hard on my tongue every time he talks about a girl. Im in my senior year (finally) so is he. We've known each other since the starting of middle school.

Since its my senior year..I want to tell him about my feelings. I dont know how he'll react to what i'm going to tell him. ive practiced so many times in my head what im going to say. He recently just broke up with his g/f the beginning of summer..so he's totally over her. but i want to tell him before another girl comes along..he's already mentioned someone..

Should I tell him NOW..or wait? im afraid if he meets a girl he'll fall hard for her that he'll think marriage..i know i know..too early for that. BUT IT HAPPENS! what should I do??? I'm thinking of telling him tomorrow when we hang out, what do you think?

Answer 1

I don't know how you could hold all those extremely strong feelings inside.  It will do you some good if you let them all out.

Just tell him but don't rehearse what you say.  It'll give it off as some cheap corny movie line.  Just be cool and whatever happens you can say you did it and pat yourself on the back

Let us know how it goes.  

Answer 2

this is tough. i think its really up to how ,he acts around you. like when you hang out with him as a friend, does he ever look like he wants more? if he looks like he would be interested in you as a girlfriend and NOT just a friend. If i had this problem i would not tell him because its not easy for me to confess things, but everybody is different. i would tell him sense this is senior year and you might not see him again. maybe he likes you too but he thought you didn't like him that way. who knows? but you never know until you try. If he doesn't like you, then try to still be friends. telling him this if he doesn't like you might ruin your friendship (but you might not see him again), but if he likes you, then its worth it. so it could be bad ir good either way. but if it was me, i would tell him. Good Luck! :)

Answer 3

same thing happened to me. my current girlfriend and i met my freshman year. she had a crush on me but i didn't like her like that. we were best friends she didn't even have to tell me what she was thinking it was like i read her mind. after almost two and a half years of knowing her i realized that all my other girlfriends had just been lust. i told her that i realized why i had said i didn't like her was because i didn't like her i loved her. and i still love her. know when i hold her hand its like i can actually read her mind. what it took for me to really think about dating her was seeing her face when i walked into the lunch room holding my new (at the time) girlfriends hand. the pain that spilled across her face made me realize she meant more to me than the girl i was holding. she had told me before that she liked me but i assumed she had gotten over it because she would tell me about guys she liked. my girlfriend isn't drop dead gorgeous but shes beautiful to me all it took was a step back to look at my life as a whole and realize that i was feeling a whole new feeling. i hope that helps some

Answer 4

YES TELL HIM TOMARROW  BEFORE ITS TOO LATE!!!!!!!!!!!! HURRY

Answer 5

Aw,Sweety..

I say you go for it.

I mean,its not like hes gonna stop talking to you!!

A friendship like that will last forever(:

TELL HIM EVERYTHING ..

Tell him how much you love him(:

Or,I SWEAR,tht you'll regret it/

Good luck!

P.S.- I LOVEE THT SONG,haha.

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Answer 6

I agree, if this is your senior year then I would move fast cause once he is married then you will never have a chance to ask him.

Actually, if you don't ask him now then when will you? I mean this is the best time to do it really since he just broke up with his girlfriend. If you don't ask him then you will always wonder what if.....

I highly recommend that you don't concentrate on reciting what you will say to him cause that always fails. What will happen is you will get mixed up with your words because your nervous and then you might look weird.

So I think you should just let it come out naturally and let him know in person too, not over the phone or in a text. This way he can see your face and see your serious. Also do it were you can be alone and there can be no interruptions.

I'm good at charming women but men are a different story since I'm straight. So I can't tell you what to say, but I always find that when a woman is truthful with me and speaks her heart it moves me for the best.

Answer 7

since u are great friends just be like hey look i want to let you know something , i really like you and this might be oacward and ill let it go but i wanted to knnow you know how do u feel about it that i like you ....

Answer 8

I'd say tell him now. It'd be better for you to get everything out sooner than later. He might like you just as much as you like him. ^_^ Also, you've been friends for so long, I can't see it hurting the relationship if he doesn't feel the same-- if you can accept it.  

Answer 9

tell him i had that situation and we wound up going outand we are still going stong(10th grader and started in 7th) so you should tell him and if it doesnt work you can still remain friends

Answer 10

Aw, honey.  I say tell him!  Let your heart out and dont hold anything back!  Good luck!  Don't be afraid, he's your bestfriend!  Hope everything goes your way!