Teen Girls, what would you do if...?

Question

There was a girl at your bus stop who is repeatedly rude to you and your friends and then tells everyone else that she's your BEST friend, even though she obviously isn't.

Then, she tells her other friends that you have terrible mood swings and resort to hitting people to get your way.

THEN she keeps on messaging you telling you that she's mad at you because you never phone her or hang out with her on the weekends and that you've become a b*tch in the past year.

What in the world would you do?

P.S., none of that is true. I'm only 14 and just starting High School. And, my friends feel the same way about her that I do.

And if you wonder at what I mean by rude, here's an example:

She takes your backpack and rummages around in it until she comes upon your registration forms (on the first day of school), then reads them and exclaims that she's shocked that you live in a townhouse. Then she gives it back and pats you on the back saying, "I know, it's hard to be poor." Loudly. I'm not even "poor..."

Answer 1

Sweetie, people can only take advantage of you with your permission.  How in the heck does she rummage in a backpack without you grabbing it out of her hands and saying loudly, "HEY, STAY OUT OF THERE, YOU NOSEY B*TCH!"  

Don't take her text messages. Just delete them.  Just because someone sends you a text message, that doesn't mean you have to respond, you know.

If she says anything to you at the bus stop, be polite, but make it clear that you have nothing to say to her.  If she tries to talk to you, just look at her and say something like, "Oh." or "Really?"  and then turn away and talk to someone else. Make sure you say it nicely, but try not to get engaged in a conversation with her.  She'll do backflips trying to get you mad and get your attention for a while, but sooner or later, she'll stop and move on to someone else.

Answer 2

YOU AND YOUR FIRENDS..JUMP HER IN OTHER WORDS SMACK THE SH** OUT OF HER LOL!!

Answer 3

Wow...I would change your phone number first of all. :)

I say turn the other cheek. She can't have a rude conversation if only one person is talking.

Answer 4

Yikes. This may sound like a strange solution, but if u r serious about addressing this - start by meeting her mom and seeing what she is like, get to know her.

See if anything makes sense to you then, and then u may know what 2 do.

Answer 5

tell her off, and say "We're not friends! We never were!" boldly.

I like townhouses, they're neat. It's pretty much just houses built in apartment form. Nothing "poor" about them.

Answer 6

Seriously speaking, If I was in your place, i would have beat the $h!t out of that ho e on the spot.  i def think this girl has issues (she screams bipolar) and thers nothing wrong with livin in a town house!!

Answer 7

I would ignore her unless it gets really bad. If she was telling lies about me and someone asked me about them, I would tell them it's a bunch of c**p. If she kept messaging me, I would block her, delete the messages, or mark her messages as spam. If she keeps touching my stuff, I would ask her loudly so the rest the class could hear me, "Are you trying to steal my stuff?" and see how she reacts. If she called me poor, I would say, "Then how am I able to afford *---insert something expensive---*  ?" She should stop after that. Your last resort should be to tell your parents or a teacher, because I've tried that and it just got a lot worse. Good luck! :)

Answer 8

next time she talks to u pretend like she doesn't exist and just keep doin that. Till she gets it.

Answer 9

wtf..idk...dont talk to her? punch her in the nose.

Answer 10

Smack her ... I'm kidding , then you'd be as rude as she is . Don't talk to her anymore & tell your friends the same. Ignore her when she's around & if she asks you why your doing this explain to her & give examples of what she does. If she's willing to change , give her a chance , if that chance gets tossed to the ground & stepped on , just forget being her friend.

Answer 11

I personally would beat her up.

Answer 12

i would tell her to f**k off  

Answer 13

Punch her face