Teen Girls: What would you do if you found out you were pregnant??

Question

like what would ur first thoughts be, who would you tell, what would you do with the baby, everything.

((btw im not pregnant LOL i was just wondering))

Answer 1

I don't believe in abortion.I believe if your mature enough to lay there and get some. Then your mature enough to eccept the consequences. Consequences meaning having to carry the baby for 9 months.

So I would do adoption, because obviously there was a reason God wanted another miracle in the world.

And adoption is good because, there are people in the world who are capable and mature enough and ready to take care of a baby. Financially, and emotionally.

And because there are some people who can not get pregnant, or just don't want to go through the whole carrying the baby a whole 9 months thing.

I would consider keeping the baby, but my age, wouldn't let me. And plus I want to live my life. That sounds kind of selfish, and i'm really not trying to.

But, I mean i'm too young. And don't plan on getting pregnant, so it's hard for me to say anything different, because i'm not ready for a baby.

That proves i'm not mature enough. (LOL)

And as for who i'd tell first. I would tell my best friend...Then the baby's father. Then my mom...Because my best friend doesn't judge me. But i'd want to tell somebody who could actually help me make the right decision. And I would kinda have to tell the baby's daddy. And I would hope he'd be supportive. And not a jerk who runs away at hearing the word "Baby"

Me and my mom have already talked about all of that stuff. She told me, she would be upset. (she's a mom she wants me to wait til' im married....) but she would NOT hate me.

And she said the only reason she would even be upset, is because she wants me to be financially stable, and with a husband. Before I get pregnant, so that it's more special, when you get to pick out baby room decorations. And stuff..

I hope this was detailed enough LOL .

I HIGHLY recommend talking to your parents, (when i say parents I mean mom.)  before s*x so you can get on birth control. Or if you dont feel comfortable doing that. Using a condom.

If he doesn't  have a condom, tell him "No glove, no love" LOL and if that doesn't work. Kick him in the b@lls as hard as you can and run!

Hope I helped!!!

Answer 2

i got pregnant at 16 i told my boyfriend then my mum i then ran away with my boyfriend we got engaged then he was tragically killed i went back to my mums house had the baby grieved lots i am now married to my current husband i have had a son and i am now pregnant with twins

Answer 3

I would be happy and nervous at the same time. I would tell my boyfriend/baby's daddy and I would definitely keep the baby.

Answer 4

Well, I found out I was pregnant when I was 19 and I was FREAKED out!   I cried SO much as soon as I saw 2 lines.  I called the father and let him know, but looking back, I should've done it some other way.  Anyway, it was hard, VERY hard, but it all worked out.  Now my baby girl is almost 2 and her father and I are getting married in April and I am also graduating college in the Spring.  It IS possible to get through it all.  I suppose I am one of the fortunate ones...

Answer 5

Well first of all,

i would definitely decide to keep it because

i am against abortion. If i absolutely had to,

i would consider adoption but I personally prob.

would just raise it. I would be worried about my family

and what they would think and of course school.

The first person i would tell is obviously my b/f

and then my parents and pretty much everyone i know

will know cause it is not a very easy thing to hide!

lol I would def. freak though. But i dont have to worry about

that really yet cause i am still a virgin.

Answer 6

Well, I'm 17 I was 16 when I found out I was pregnant. My bestfriend her boyfriend & my boyfriend was there when I find out. I told her parents then I told mine two days later. I was really scared!! But I'm keeping the baby.

Answer 7

First of all I don't think that is a funny subject to joke about. Its not funny for little girls to talk about getting pregnant. Why would you wanna know what to do? Having a baby is not an easy thing. Its not like playing dolls. Your whole life changes FOREVER. I personally don't think that you should even think about having s*x til you are ready to be responsible. If you are gonna do it. Be safe. Its not a matter of well if it happens, it happens. That is a life. I am pro-choice but could never have an abortion myself. I can tell you I am 23 and I am 15 weeks pregnant. I myself am realizing I will be missing out on altot of things and giving up a lot. I also couldnt imagine not being married and having that person with you. My husband is deployed right now and I am having a hard time with that. I wouldnt even want to think about having a baby with someone that I thought I loved. Let me tell you when you are young love is much different than when you are grown up. Until I met my husband I really thought I had loved and then he came along and now we are having this baby and making our family. Just wait til you are older to worry about things like that. Have fun while you are young. You need time to experience and grow up. Be safe.  

Answer 8

i wouldnt know what to do.

Answer 9

Wow I would be in shock. I don't know if I could tell anyone right away. I think I would wait for the right time to tell the big news. I would defintely not have an abortion though even though it would be really scary. I would want to keep the baby but wouldn't know if adoption would be the best answer. I'm glad I'm not pregnant. That would be horrible.  

Answer 10

depends on how old you are. i was 18 when i got pregnant and my first thoughts were "oh c**p," followed by a huge smile. it was a very surreal moment becuase i knew my entire life changed in that very second. the only person i told was my boyfriend/babys father and we had a conversation on what we should do about the baby (even though i KNEW i was keeping it i just wanted him to think he had a say in things) we kept it a secret for like 2 months (until i was 4 months) and then we told our parents, and then shortly after started telling friends and stuff. now im sitting here only one month left to go to meet my little girl and i couldnt be more excited

Answer 11

OMG i would not tell anyone and i would not keep the baby

srry pro-life people:(

Answer 12

Tell my mother and have an abortion.  I am pro-choice, always have been.

I myself was suppsed to be aborted however, for my biological mother it was too late, then the ministry took me and I was placed for adoption, and thank god. However, even if I was 20 or 21 I would still have an abortion. Career first, relationship second and child third.

However, this is my personal opinion and nothing against teen mothers at all, I know some in fact and think they are wonderful mothers, everyone is different though.

Answer 13

i would tell my mother and tell da baby daddy first. but that wouldnt cuz i will always be avirgin until marriage

Answer 14

i would b shocked but i would NEVR kill it! i would tell my bffl then the baby-daddy....then my mom

Answer 15

i would tell the boy and get an abortion. theres no way i would be able to go through with it.

Answer 16

well i'm 15 and pregnant.  i told the baby's dad first, then my mom.  my first thoughts were what am i going to do, and i felt pretty scared about telling my mom.  but i'm 25 weeks now, and i'm really excited and i'm keeping the baby.

Answer 17

I would be scared and go oh god my moms gonna kill me :|

I Would tell my best friend and ask her to come with me for an abortion

I dont think i could tell my mom i'd be too scared as my sister got pregnant young   i would proberly cry alot and id tell the dad  

Answer 18

Well I was had just turned 18 when I found out...

My first thought was YAY! I get to start our family...

Since after all I was married by this time.

I was also nervous on how others were going to look at me then I thought s***w THEM. Im going to be a d**n good mother.

My first thought was okay doctor time..

I took 4 pregnancy test...then went to a center.

Then started going to the doctor.

Now Im happily married still and 30 wks and 4days pregnant!

Im going to go to college on a full ride asap.

And cant wait to meet my daughter.

Answer 19

My first thought would be 'ohmigod what's wrong with me! Condoms exist, why didn't I use one?? I am in sooooo much trouble, what should I do, oh no, should I tell my friend? Oh no, oh no, oh no!!' haha I'd be going crazy, I'd probably have a break down. I would tell my mom first, but not all moms are the same. And MAYBE my closest friend (girl or boy) and most likely the dad. But I would also tell him that he had no say in what I did with the baby and I'm not marrying him and all. What would I do with my baby? Well I am only 14 and I know I'm gonna get a lot of heat for this, but I'd get an abortion (*hides from people throwing stuff*). I would feel bad, yes, but that is what I would do. It is best for both of you. A baby growing up with a teen mother mostly doesn't go well for either of them. So yeah...

Answer 20

take full responsibility for your actions

Answer 21

Im 18 and pregnant, I was really happy when I found out, and my husband was just beyoud exctied :) It was really nice to see his face when i told him I was pregnant!! Yeah, now I am almost 30 weeks!! cant wait for her to come..!!

Answer 22

i found out last night im pregnant, 4 weeks, im 17 and in my situation, keeping a baby would be a bad decision, not just for me but also for the child, im sorry i cannot go through with an adoption,so i am getting an abortion, i have told the father and my mother, and i have their support.

Answer 23

I was 16 when I found out I was prego with my son. My first thought was OMFG! my mom is gonna kill me! My husband (bf at the time) was with me and we called my mom from the ER (I was having bad stomach pains so we went) I went home and she was pissed but she got over it. I kept the baby if u are "mature" enuf to spread ur legs ur mature enuf to deal with the consequences. I went to school when I was prego then untill he was 4 months and I couldnt get a babysitter and dropped out. My hubby went into the military. So he was gone till my son was 6 months. It wasnt easy, my mom wouldnt help me cuz she said its YOUR baby not mine. But he is now 5 alsomt 6 and we have a 3 month old and been married for 6 yrs :)

Answer 24

I found out I was pregnant at 17. I was already engaged and living with my fiance so its a little different than most teen pregnancies. I told my fiance first. And my Granny was the first person outside my friends that I told. My stepmom found out from my myspace- go figure. And my parents were really awesome about it. Honestly, my parents were more worried that I was taking prenatal vitamins, seeing a doctor, and eating right.

Its all turned out very well. Ive found out its a girl, am now 18, and am due the beginning of October. Everyones so excited, and shes already loved by so many people.

Honestly, I couldnt be happier. =)