Teen QUESTION TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK?

Question

My son is 19 he lives with his mom me and his step dad and sis all in same house.My room is above his room and he knows I hear basement noises loud tv etc.He had a girl over last night she knows he lives with people his parents etc.She spent the night and moaned and moaned and got really loud like she wanted us to hear her which is rude embarrassing and disrespectful on both thier parts or just hers?And she puts hickys real bad all over neck but hes not allowed to give her none what do you think about that? she looks 4 months pregnant and my son has only seen her two months and she says she's pregnant by my son last two times she was here she avoided me seeing her stomach to like talking around doors and walking behind him never coming upstairs alone they argue constantly and she bosses him around but i caught glimpse today her belly is big and it's not fat what you think that also?and hes not allowed be at her house w/out$ and she told him he shld kick us out or charge rent i own hous

Answer 1

she must be annoying next time bring a guy over and have extremely loud s*x and make the whole floor shake.

they'll be scarred

Answer 2

Man, that chicks a b*tch ! But wait she's pregnant....

I think you need to talk to him, don't assume anything.

I don't know, that girls obviously messed up.

Answer 3

...i think you need a sit down talk with your son & let him know what you are aware of & give him some ideas of what he might just be getting himself into...

...you and you husband (his step dad) should just say that we need to talk because we are worried about some of the things that you are doing...here's what We KNOW...you are dating & having s*x with a girl that is obviously pregnant...as a mother i know shes got to be 4-5 months along in her pregnancy if shes showing as much as i saw of her...this girl is saying you are the father of her child...if you are & you know you are then you have to take responsibility for the child for the next 18-22 years...if you are not you are dealing with fire here because she can name you as the father & you better be sure you are the father or if she is just using you...

...our RECOMMENDATION is to find out for sure how far along she is pregnant & if you can possibly be the father...find out her due date & go with her to her doctor's appointment...a test after thre baby is born in several months can show if you are the true father of the baby...and acting as her boyfriend & having s*x with her while she is pregnant shows you are living as her "significant other" all this time before the baby is born...please tell us what your plans are with this girl so we know how to prepare ourselves to either let her into our fanily with a newborn & if you plan to get married...

...your son needs to know that as a potential fahter of this child (she says he is) he has rights too...if she is deceiving him (or you) you may wish to try to get some free legal advice...

...if you indeed own the house you may have to show tough love to your son & tell him he has to start to pay his way at home or you will force him (and also her too) to leave...if necessary give him a deadline to tell you his plans with this girl & his future, get a job that pays some of the household expenses or he will have to leave...sometimes this is the only way to kick-start a son's or daughter's life...

...and as his parents, or as his mother, you should get the facts you need to live with the consequences of their future actions...

...good luck to both you & your son...from what you've indicated this girl is taking advantage of your son's relationship with her & also your allowing this relationship to continue under your own roof...

Answer 4

I think you need to sit down with your son and tell him what you've observed. If you don't think its his baby tell him to dump her. He must have some idea of how bitchy she is to him. He obviously knows he doesnt deserve that.