Teen behavior...(should I be concerned or let it go?)?

Question

two teens visited me this summer..and usually one of them who visits every summer is either easy to get a long with or really difficult when her brother is here(this summer he wasn't thank God!) but, she had a close female friend with her..and they were wrestling on a bed, and kissing and grabbing one another's b*****s, saying "I love you" to one another, holding hands together, etc..(they both say that they are straight on a blog site that they are on)They also like a lot of guys and even try to get men's attention as well! They are ages 15 and 14..and while I have never seen the main person I know display this much sexual stuff towards a female..it is the first time that she has been away from her older brother..and also the first time that she brought a good friend with her..(also she is from a small town, and her step-dad is a beast(from what she has told my hubby and I) and she would love to move out! She does NOT always get a long with her mom, either!

Anybody?

Answer 1

Yeah, it sounds as if they are just trying to get action(even if its negative).But,I would be concerned, even if it was girl and guy. They are disrespecting you and your home.Let her know  it the behavior continues she will not be allowed back.Respect is the most important thing withe teens and discipline. Don't let her disrespect your house with her childish play.

Answer 2

SHawtty I'm a nympho shawty im a nympho from my boy drewski

Answer 3

well, i mean be concerned but not TOO concerned if that makes sense, i just know that i am in high school. lots of girls make out and do stupid stuff with other girls just to act out or try it. most likely she isn't g*y and she will go through the phase just like other highschoolers.

Answer 4

thats hot and normal its life let it go dont take it very seriously

Answer 5

It's hormones and curiosity wrapped together. However they should respect you and your home.

Answer 6

I think it's normal to be curious and experiment. I'm in a happy, long-term, straight relationship, but I've wondered what it would be like to be in a -extremely platonic- relationship with a girl.

Often, we teenagers feel a need to put ourselves in certain categories, because we need a way to make the world make sense. They might have been curious, and then felt a need to justify what they may (or may not) have done by sort of deciding that they're g*y or bi or whatever. (I don't care if being g*y is a choice; I don't care if someone is g*y. That's not what I'm talking about here.)

However, if life isn't so good at home, maybe she's looking for more affection from the friend and turned their relationship to something more romantic to try and bring more closeness in to her life.

If they're both happy and everything's consensual, I don't see where it's something to worry about. Either way, I doubt there's much you can do. If this girl has problems, then they'd be related to her relationship with her family, and there's nothing an outsider can do about that.

Answer 7

it sounds like she was just messing around from my point of view, i can tell yo youyu that i dont like guys at all so i know  how they feel and i can also see how you feel because my family knows, i wouldnt worry about it because they are just teens and it is becoming a thing these days to try it out and many dont do anything at all but some stay bi or go completly g*y, but if you loved them the day before you found this out why souldnt you fell that way today? and if you do get concerned they will just go the other way, or feel that it is not allowed and then hide it from you instead of telling you what or how she is feeling, just let it go, if it turns out to be something and you havent bugged her about it then she will proberly tell you about it but if you bug her she wont let anybody know.

Answer 8

sounds like a bi-nympho.