Teen bullying? Adults really don't understand!

Question

all this teen bullying is getting out of control.

and adults are just like oh tell someone or ignore it, when they really don't understand.

I'm 13, and I'm not really bullied. But, I have been in the situation before.

ppl think that its just trash talk with girls, and not fighting, well there wrong, girls are just as afraid of getting beat up as guys.

like I said I've been in the situation, were a bunch of ppl ganged up on me and some of my friends and were gonna beat us up on the last day of school,

its hard, you don't know what to do. If you tell they can still do it anyway, or they an just do it outside of school.

your so afraid,

and we told adults, and they took it like nothing, like oh ignore it, they didn't care.

they don't get it.

they don't know what its like, and there not doing enough.

its wrong. And it needs to stop!

its taken way to lightly in my oppinon.

what's your veiw?

what has happened to you?

and how was it taken?

what can and needs to be done?

and how can I change it?

Answer 1

well i know this is probably not good advice but if i was in your position i know i wouldnt tell anybody because i don't think it would make much of a difference.

i think you have to pretend to them that you don't care and stop acting scared of them. maybe you shouldnt stand up and insult them because that would just anger them more....

Answer 2

I think the best thing you can do is tell the police, as well as the principal of your school or whoever is responsible for you and those girls. i agree some adults don't understand, i know a teacher who ignores racism and bullying,  so i simply don't ask him for help-i tell a reliable person. someone who will actually do something.

Answer 3

Police, police, police. Use the law to the full to crack down on these people.

Sometimes adults don't make a difference, but the law does!

Answer 4

your forgetting that every adult has been a teen and alot have been bullied. im 20 and i have been there before. i stood up for myself. they go by your fear and use it. you got to stand up for yourself. take a self defense class.  

Answer 5

i know exactly what your talking about i remember i was walking home and i saw this girl and she was surrounded by like 20 people some even in highschool and then the people that were pretending to be her friends stole her phone and when the people at my school found out they didnt do anything just suspended this 1 girl for a day and i used to get bullied by this one guy a lot and then he decided him and his friends were going to jump me and as soon as i started to win against him his friends backed off i dont think kids should get like expelled for bullying but i do think the teachers and stuff should be alot more aware of it because its like they just dont know or dont care teachers dont do anything and like i said this one kid used to mess with me now nobody messes with me and people dont mess with you when they see your not scared of them always fight back and all the people on here that said to all the police wtf  dont call the police over some bullying and even though some people said not to stand up insul them thats what i would do and i know exactly how it feels like right before you get jumped your stomache is like going crazy and you cant think straight and your just panicking

Answer 6

Express your concern in the form of a letter to your principal and suggest the staff have stricter control over the problem and tougher punishment fr bullies etc. The teachers need to not be afrain to confront bullies's parents etc. It is teachers and parents' responsibility to crack down on it.

Answer 7

If someone punches you in the face you can call the police on them. It is sad I understand your problem I would go right to the principal (or if your scarred to talk to the principal) talk to the guidance counseler. Don't be afraid their job is to help others. They were a teen once just like you.

Answer 8

bullys r just wow lol they r spiecal in there own little way loli just ignore them and thats it