Teen....come n answer me! is it normal for a 14 years old boy?

Question

I hv tried to masturbatedwith my friend in the school toilet after lessons.we both are not g*y n I hv a girlfd. He likes to take off all of his clothing but i only take off my pants. I always stand behind him and m********e for him and we take turns. Once he asked me to allow him to do ******* but i refused to. Am I and my friend sick? some friends told me that they hv the same experience? Do u people try it before?

Answer 1

<crickets>

Answer 2

I did once......when I was 7! You're g*y, dude.

Even if you have a wife and 3 children, your wife is gonna come home one day to find you and a guy in leather chaps named Big Mike spanking each other with whips.

Answer 3

ehh ya that is pretty g*y i would probably stop that especially if you have a gf have her do that for you not another guy.

Answer 4

Its kinda wierd but???? thanks for the two points

Answer 5

its totally normal for guys going through puberty to want to experiment. it does not mean you're g*y. if you are g*y, you will know yourself. as for your friend, he might or might not be g*y. it really is up to him to decide for himself.

there are guys who have mutual masturbation sessions all the time and have girlfriends so there is a wide range of different people and experiences.

as for me, yes i have tried mutual masturbation several times and i certainly enjoyed them. to me they were great experiences when i was growing up. you should remember to do only what you're comfortable with and don't force others to do what you want if they are not comfortable with it, otherwise it ruins the fun.

good luck

Answer 6

that is really, the gayest thing i've herd in my life except g*y s*x. DO NOT, EVER, like, EVER, do that again, if you don't wanna be g*y

Answer 7

that's one of the most f***** up things i've ever heard, and also how can you think that your not g*y, after seeing another guy jack off and getting off on that yourself. Even if this is some perverted freaks way of making a joke, your ability to create such a messed up story, means that you have thought about it at some point before, and also means that because you think like that YOU ARE g*y.

Answer 8

whatever, your g*y

Answer 9

Well obviously youre bi otherwise you would never be involved with a boy.  ITs not really fair on your gf though.  Try not to be doing it in school coz if you were caught, oh my god the embarrassment!

Be more descreet and nobody will judge!

Answer 10

This might answer part of your question -  be sure to read it all through, as the beginning is a bit confusing:

http://www.jackinworld.com/bios/bio233.h...

But do find out all you can about safe s*x - you don't want to end up with a nasty infection.

Answer 11

Your bisexual. Or atleast bicorises.

Answer 12

Stop All This Noncense Immediately As This May Destroy Ur N Ur Frnd's Life N Future.

Stop This Only IF Ur Not A g*y...!

Answer 13

Um, what?!!!!!!!!!!! Just do it to yourself, don't let him touch you O_O

If I were you, I wouldn't repeat this, ever!

This has never happened to me.

Don't be a douche bag dawn, homophobe. Learn to spell before you criticize

Answer 14

No, and God is watching you , that is most disgusting and not normal.....shame on you ....get a girl ,not a boy, but make sure she is old enough, like at least 21

Answer 15

Wow, all the people who are saying that he's got problems are really, really close-minded. It's perfectly normal for a fourteen year old boy to experiment, and whatever gives you pleasure, you should go ahead with (safely, of course). If you deny your instincts or curiosity you're going to end up with a h**l of a lot more mental problems than you would just exploring all aspects of your sexuality.

It sounds like your friend might be a little more "into it" than you are, so be wary of any kind of relationship or attachment that he might perceive that you don't reciprocate.

Personally, and this is my opinion and not fact or judgment, I think that it's important to experiment when you have the chance. I'm female (twenty years old) and have experimented with my share of girls (I think I'm pansexual rather than bisexual), and my fiance (twenty-four years old) has no shame about admitting that he experimented with men when he was younger and feels similarly about his sexuality. Both of us are lucky enough to share the same opinion that it helped us develop our sexual preferences and understand ourselves and our desires more, as well as the different types of stimulation we enjoy. Even if you were to turn out homosexual or bisexual, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you mentally or physically, regardless of what the bible-thumpers say. It also might be the hormones of puberty driving you to seek sexual pleasure wherever you can, which may lead you to things that you had never thought you would be interested in before. It might be a phase, or it might just be a part of your personality that you'll come to terms with as you mature.

Enjoy what you have while you can. Being in your early teens, you probably shouldn't tell your girlfriend though, she might not understand.

Hope you have fun, and do be safe!

:)

Answer 16

I would hesitate to say it is NORMAL, but Kinsey found that it was not unknown for guys in the early teens to play with each other in this way.

Answer 17

omg you have a gf nd your letting a boy give you a hand job.. IN SCHOOL!! your either bi or g*y nd usin your gf if your not g*y stop it wiv tha lad nd have the decency to let your gf **** you off