Teenage fights with Mom= very violent! How can I stop fighting with my mom so much?!?

Question

My mom and I get into so many fights- it’s not even funny. And don’t say that teenage girls have a tendency to fight with their mother- our fights are sooo OVER RATED! Half the time, it’s physical, while other half it’s verbal and emotional. I don’t wanna fight with her anymore- Im tired of screaming with her and fighting. How can I learn how to control my temper while do what I believe in?

She’s a dictator! She tells me the stupidest rules ever!!! She favors my sibling all the time over me b/c I always fight with her or I have lesser marks than her- ugh! I’m fed up! She acts as if I’m a demon and a burden to my family- and she never forgets to say it either!

How can we get along without fighting and hurting each other so much?!? She’s my mom- we should be close and friends- ya know? When I’m older, I don’t want to remember a relationship that was hurtful and cruel. How can I control my temper and how can WE stop fighting so much?

Answer 1

i went thru exactly the same thing with my mum and it only got better when i moved out. we even had bad arguments when i was pregnant and i think its down to clashing personalities. im  not sure how old u r but when u can move out it will improve. we get on sooooo well now. but if ur young u shud try and stick to whatever ur mum says. i am a mum now and know how hard it can be. she only wants the best for you no matter how unfair u think she is being. try and talk to her and explain how u are feeling. good luck hope it works out x*x