Teenage problem I NEED ANSWERS.?

Question

So im 15 years old and 2 days ago i got home drunk

i know im stupid etc...

my mom won't talk to me now it's been 2 days and my dad has always been so fuckkked up to me!

i can't take it i want to move out but i have no where to go.

it's not the first time i drink lately i have been drinking a lot

i also huff lots of things and do some drugs.

HOW DO I MAKE MY MOM TALK TO ME?

Answer 1

Your mom is being incredibly immature.  She needs to TALK to you! That is one of the reasons why you are experimenting with drugs, etc.  Coming home drunk is bad....but please do not huff things or take drugs other than weed because that is super dangerous.  I'd say don't drink or smoke weed either, but that may not happen overnight.  

You should try to keep as calm as possibly by not going out for the next few days.  Try talking to your mom, but if that doesn't work....write her a letter.

In the letter you should write how frustrated you've been and how sorry you are (even if you're not).  You may also through in some corny stuff about all the hormones.  Ask her for a girls night out/you and her night out....just you and her to dinner and a movie to talk about her past and yours.  You can also talk to her about how you dad is such an a-hole, cuz she may agree.   Be really sweet in your letter....even though your mom doesn't deserve sweetness.  Don't worry though...if you are a successful adult in a few years and don't give them sh*t or contact info, then you've gotten your revenge for a crappy childhood.

Answer 2

You need to start by showing her that you respect you house and that you are a man of integrity. You have admitted that your actions are stupid.

Try to get sober, analyze why your mom is not talking to you and take the steps to remend that situation. Once you have remended the situation once again the communications lines will open.

If you were my son I wouldn't speak to you either, you need to hit bottom before you will relize what you are doing and who you are hurting.

Answer 3

start doing lots of chores and promise you wont do it again

Answer 4

talk to your mom tell her you need help because you do need help you shouldnt be drinking at your age

Answer 5

Well first off your 15!!! Puffing and doing drugs? and you think your dad won't talk to you cause of what reason?? I mean your acting like a jerk.. Sorry to put it so  bold... Don't matter how old you get, your still always going to be the kid..

And look what your doing to your own life? you don't think that what your doing to yourself won't harm you medically now even in a month or two? then what?? You want attention??? GROW UP! thats called "TOUGH LOVE"

Answer 6

Write your mom a letter and be honest with her,and if you truly want make things better and want help,which you do need whether you realize it or not,and tell her what you have been doing the drinking and huffing etc.Family and drug counseling is a good idea.Good luck.

Answer 7

stop doing that **** she's probably just worried about you  

Answer 8

Ay foo get her some mota and a rona and if dat dont work come kick it with me ese... We beans got to stick together

Downer

Answer 9

your drug taking ( drinking,drugs and huffing) who are you hurting?

EVERYONE around you. Maybe you can get a nuetral party to come in to your home and be the mediator a pastor or a family friend.

You shouldn't move out because its rough out there,

I think you need to get honest with her.she may be so mad she just cannot deal with you and before she says somehting she will regret she is giving you the cold shoulder.

write her a letter and ask her to talk toyou.

Answer 10

Dude do you no what those drugs are doing to you they are killing right at this moment. If i was your mom i would never talk to you again.

Answer 11

Tell her that you really need her to listen, and that you need help. If she won't talk, go to your school guidance counselor, or maybe a Grandparent, or an Aunt or Uncle. Whatever it takes, talk to a trusted adult. Clean yourself up while you still can. Trust me, it's not too late. I'm praying for you that God will deliver you and heal your family problems.

Answer 12

Stop doing drugs stop getting drunk, that's hurting your mom that's why she's not talking to you do you expect her to be okay with the point of her baby, hurting his self? You should try and put yourself in her shoes and see what she is seeing.

Answer 13

Tell her you will get a job and check yourself in rehab.