Teenager , without her own room ?

Question

I'm 16 years old and i live in a one bedroom appartment with my mom .. its stressfull for me because i can't hangout with my friends or even bring over a boy without being embarassed about sharing a room with my mom..I have no privacy what so ever.

Luckily we are moving into a 2 bedroom in about 2-3 weeks.

but, my boyfriend always talks about how he wants to finally meet my mom and how he wants to come over sometime during the school week since he lives far. ( which requires him to stay with me )

except i keep making excuses for him not too!!

what should i do ?

i cant keep making excuses ....

ones like

" well my mom is will be mad if i have anyone over .."

or ..

" my place is boring .. thers nothing to do .."

They are just starting to sound unbelievable ..

soon he will think something is up ..

what should i tell him ?

or sadley to say .. does anyone have any other excuses that sound believable just for the next 2 weeks of moving time ?

thanks a bunch! <33

Answer 1

do you know that some girls in africa not has house they live in street

you must be more patient

Answer 2

Tell him that it is very hectic around the house since you are moving and that your mom is really stressed out right now and maybe that is not the best time for him to meet her.

Or, if you are getting sick of lying to him, just tell him your living situation. If he really cares about you, it won&#039;t matter to him. You can still wait until you guys are in your new (and bigger!) place to have him stay over.

Answer 3

Why not try being honest with the fella.  Explain that at the present time your mom is going through some financial hardships and that you are embarrassed by your living arrangements.  If he is truly interested in you then he will certainly not judge you and will respect you all the more for being straight up with him.  Mom is always going to be there for you, through good and bad times, but this young man may not be.   So my opinion is to be 100% honest, and if he can&#039;t accept you for what and/or who you are then the h**l with him.  Best of luck.

Answer 4

Just tell him that you&#039;re in the process of moving and once you and your mom are settled in he would be welcomed to come and visit. That should by you the 2 -3 weeks your looking for.

Your also putting too much stress on yourself about this. Chances are he doesn&#039;t care about your living arrangements, it&#039;s you he wants to see.

Answer 5

i am almost 19 and i live in a one-bedroom apartment with BOTH my parents. well, 7 out of the 12 months of a year i live away at college. but anyway to answer your question, if your boy really cares about you, he wouldnt care. my good friends all dont care, not that i bring them over anyway. i def feel your pain, for all of high school i hated my living condition.  

Answer 6

If your moving in 2-3 weeks cant you just tell him about your housing problem and that he has to wait until you move?

I know that sounds simple, but usually the simple solution is the best!

Cheers