Teenager Feeling Like Something is Holding Her Back?

Question

Okay, I know that this has been said in most places, but I feel that this has effected me my entire life.

I have two sides of me. One is the girl who acts like a complete tomboy, plays video games, usually wears the tomboyish cloths, jokes with friends, very social, loves anime, etc. The average teenager.

Then their's the side that my psycologist calls "a 27 year-old in a 16 year old body". Very mature, thinks deeper than people around her, sees things differently, has a very extended vocabulary than others around her, who is an inspiring amatuer authoress.

The thing is, I don't want to present myself as my tomboyish side so people will get too comfortable with me so they know times to take me seriously. The thing is, it's labeling me as weird, a snob, and very up-tight. I want to open-up more, but I keep thinking something is holding me back, especially when I start "dating".

Is it me that's grown-up past her age, or should I think otherwise?

Answer 1

I am sorry just sorry but I have to say this sounds like one of those disney channel teen drama things... sorry to be rude but it does... any ways I also must say what does playing video games have to do with being a tomboy? any ways I can't really answer your question sorry ><

Answer 2

You sound kind of dramatic. Also it sounds like you analyze yourself waaaaaay too much. Seriously, I think the most neurotic people say "My psychologist says..." Stop thinking about yourself so much and just be who you are. You sound like you think you're really gifted and smart. But the smartest and coolest people I know are just themselves and don't think about it. If you want to play video games and write, do it. There are a lot of smart and diverse teens out there. You're unique... just like everybody else :)

Answer 3

I AM A 13 YEAR OLD IN A 30 YEAR OLDS BODY. I LOOK OLDER THAN I AM, I AM SMARTER THAN MOST KIDS MY AGE AND MY LEVEL OF UNDERSTANDING AND REASONING IS VERY HIGH.

I JUST LOOK AT IT AS A BLESSING BECAUSE IN A WAY IT WORKS FOR ME. THE RESPONSIBILITY I HAVE MAKE THINGS EASIER FOR ME.

BUT THEN AGAIN I HATE FEELING LIKE I DON'T BELONG IN MY GROUP OF FRIEND. BECAUSE OF ALL THE WORK I DO AT HOME AND AT SCHOOL I DON'T FEEL LIKE A NORMAL TEEN.

I DO MORE AT HOME THAT MOST KIDS DO IN  A WEEK. SO I CAN RELATE TO NOT LIVING IN THE MOMENT LIKE KIDS SHOULD.

Answer 4

yea youve grown up past your age...you liek doing stuff you probabaly did about 2 years ago but your mind is also focusing on growing up && developign into a youn adult.

i have the same problem im a 25 yr old in a 14 yr old girls body.

but hey heres nothign much we can do...little by little youll be changing without even noticing it...but thats just the way life if you know?