Teenager (girl) not interested in boys at all?

Question

My teenager, who is a girl, is not interested in boys one bit. She does not not find a single boy attractive in any way and gets really angry if a boy talks to her. Any thoughts on this?

Answer 1

she could be asexual or a L*****n!

Answer 2

im 14 and could care less about boys.i dont want a boyfriend.i think there a waste of time.ive got better things to do.maybe this is how she feels?

Answer 3

If a teen age  girl has no interest in boys one bit, just one reason, she is a L*****n!!! ah, does she like to eat tacos??

Answer 4

It probably just means she's uh, not interested in boys.

I hate to put it like that, but I wouldn't be too concerned about it.

It could be that she simply doesn't have an interest in dating and is focusing on other things, she may be in a phase, she may only be attracted to older guys (that's me, basically), she may be attracted to girls, she may just think boys are silly and annoying based on past experiences. The best way to find out is probably just to ask her.

I'm kindof like she is, I'm a teenager and I just don't find teenage boys appealing simply because I think they still, mostly, look and act like babies. I'm not interested in dating them, so I figure it's fine to wait until I'm older to think about it more. I too get annoyed when guys talk to me because a lot of the time, they may come off as shallow or just plainly unattractive.

Answer 5

She could be a L*****n

or

Maybe its awkward talking about boys she likes around you?Or she doesn't like boys coming up yo her when you're around?

Answer 6

And? How is this a problem? If she's not interested in boys/men, then it's her business.

Answer 7

There are a lot of reasons, but honestly it isn't your business, it's hers.

-Maybe she likes girls and is embarrassed to come out about it right away.

-Maybe she is uncomfortable talking about/acknowledging boys around you.

-Maybe she's asexual.

-Maybe she has a boyfriend and doesn't want you to know.

-Maybe she is just not turned on my guys her own age. (They're a bit immature)

-She's just now starting to have thoughts about guys and is uncomfortable with it so she blocks it out, resulting in that attitude.

Don't worry about it, she'll come around.

Answer 8

Give her a couple years. My cousin(12) is the same way. I'm sure she'll turn around.

Answer 9

It doesn't have to mean that your girl is a L*****n! Some girls tend to be more aggressive towards boys. For example 2 of my friends. It will pass.

Be glad she is not pregnant like the rest of the teen girls around here

Answer 10

she'll probably turn around later in life ! You shouldnt be worried at all! Teen boys are immature and act like children sometimes soo i would understand why! It doesnt mean she is a L*****n start off soo dont listen to that guy up there!

Answer 11

maybe she likes girls?

Answer 12

You shouldn't worry about it. There are many possiblities, but I know for myself that I didn't really get interested or think guys were attractive and shut myself down when they'd try and talk to me, until I was about 18. Now at 22 I'm happily married. It took me time as I found other teenage boys unattractive, immature, etc. I grew up mentally much faster than the boys that surrounded me so I was always annoyed with them. Hormones kicked in later and I had no issues with men after that. Give her time and see what develops. Perhaps she's just had a bad experience like others have suggested.  

Answer 13

Maybe she does'nt want to tell you but she may already be going out with a guy

Answer 14

Maybe she has had a bad experience with boys before... that you dont know about  

Answer 15

There could be a lot of things happening with her that could have that result. Someone could have done something to her that she hasn't told you, she may know someone who has had a bad experience with boys that she doesn't want to happen to her, or she could just not want a boyfriend for various reasons. She may not feel ready or want to give up that much of her time for a boy.

Give her a few years. Some people don't start dating until their 20's. I've seen it happen.

Answer 16

I'm an extreme case-- i 'shut down' all the teen-aged emotions for ten years after a bad breakup at 14.  If she isn't interested in boys yet, don't push her.  When she is ready to notice them, she will.  Let her have her space for now, and be t hankful she isn't in the back seat of somones car.  Keep an open line of communication between you, and make sure she knows she can talk to you about anything.  That's the way dad raise me, and now, at 24, I am preparing for a new stage in my life with the man i love, and who loves me just for me.  Don't worry mom, she's jsut taking her time.

Answer 17

uhm wow.

i hate to be the one to tell you this

but your daughters a

L*****n  

Answer 18

yea, your daughter is a L*****n. talke to her about it and maybe you'll reach an understanding