Okay, here's the situation. My husband is deployed (been gone for three weeks) and will probably be gone until Thanksgiving. I have five kids and the oldest is a 15 year old boy. My children are all pretty well behaved so I don't really have too much trouble with them. But lately, my oldest son has taken to calling his younger brothers stupid and dumb. He'll say, "You're so stupid. why do you do......(whatever)"
Now we have never allowed our kids to name-call and we ESPECIALLY do not allowed them to call each other stupid. What on earth makes him think he can start now?!?
I think it has to do with his dad not being here, so he thinks he's a man now. Though I must say even the "man" of our house never calls anyone stupid!
Anyway, I have started a new thing with him. Every single time he calls anyone stupid or dumb, I get his phone for 24 hours. I put it away and turn it off and he doesn't get it back until exactly 24 hours later. The first night, he lost it for three days in the first hour! For the next three days, he never said it again. So I gave him his phone back after three days and he went a week without saying it. Then one day he said it again. I took his phone and this time I told him it was for two days. I gave it back after two days and I told him if he says it again, it will be three days. Do you think I am being too mean? I want it to stop. He loves his phone. He got it for his B-day last March and it is very important to him. But do you think three days is TOO mean, or is it justified?
What do you think?
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