Tell me how you feel about this?? cuz im torn!?

Question

How do u feel about egg donation, or surrogacy...After having my baby, i feel for women more than before who cant have that experience, and ive thought of egg donation, no money in return or surrogacy, but now i dont know how i feel...in egg donation, knowing there may be a little you out there, or with surrogacy, growwing that little somebody for someone, feeling the movement and having to give him/her up...just curiouse of other peoples opinions...what do u think?

Answer 1

I could see using a surrogate, but I could never be one,and I know I would never want to donate my eggs.

This is just my personal views for ME, it does not mean I think everyone should think this way also!!

Answer 2

I had the best experience being pregnant, so I would definately be a surrogate.  It would be hard to give it up, but knowing that it isn't 'your' baby would help.  I had a very hard time getting pregnant (I have PCOS) so I know what it's like to need someone's help.

As far as egg donation... that's harder.  That's your child.  You have to be able to separate yourself from the fact that someone else will be a mother to your child.  I don't think I could do that.