Tell me what you think please?!?

Question

When my husband and I first started dating and were married he wanted s*x all the time. When we were married for about 3 yrs he took a night job and s*x went down hill then after about another year he got a good job on the day shift and things got better. He is now on nights again but the s*x isnt really there anymore. I try to take into consideration that he is tired but he never wants it. The roles have reversed and I want it all the time and have many things I want him to do in the bedroom that he wont. I used to be pretty simple in the bedroom with him but I have been giving into all of his sexual desires with the exception of a threesome. He is always checking out other women right in front of me and even commenting about them.I am beginning to think its the end of our marriage. I just dont know what to think or do. I wont give into his fantasy for a threesome because would defintely end our marriage.

Answer 1

I think that you guys should just talk it out, or go to a marriage counselor, your choice.  When you guys have the same days off, just spend some time together and rekindle the romance.

Answer 2

Sounds like trouble ahead. Get it worked out. It won't fix itself. Good luck.

Answer 3

sounds like he's being like most men and being self absorbed. and i said most, not all!!!

Answer 4

Time to have a good, serious talk and set some limits around his behavior.  

This link is to a blog that helps me significantly and has helped my marriage SO much.  I hope it helps you see that his behavior is not acceptable but there are ways to set limits and not give up complete hope until you have tried.

http://lmerlobooth.typepad.com/straightt...

Answer 5

I'd be bothered too.  Three's a crowd.  I definately think there's a red flag there. Counseling sounds like a good idea.