Tell my best friend i'm bisexual(boy)?

Question

my best friend sometimes makes homophobic comments and i want to tell him everything about me because we have been friends since year 7 (year 11 when we go back) please help me what should i do and how should i tell him.

Answer 1

im bi im bi yeah i said it twice got a problem with that

Well since you guys have been best friends for a long time and you trust him with this tell him and if you dont feel comfortable with telling him write it to him in a note if that doesnt work then tell him to guess, tell him that you dont like it when he says homophobic comments because it makes you offended

Answer 2

you just need to be honest and make sure you tell him you only see him as a friend and it's not that you are attracted to him but as good friends you wanted him to know what's going on. He might think differently before making those comments again. Sometimes guys don't even mean it when they say it, they are just trying to act tough and he probably doesn't even realize what you are going through. My friend is g*y and instead of saying "that's so g*y" we say "that's so L*****n" haha i'm sure everything will be fine and if not than he truely wasn't worth it my dear!

Answer 3

That's a tough one. I would tell him, if he is a good friend he should understand. He might act a little different for a while, thinking you might like him or something, or he might not and everything will be the same. It's good to be truthful with your friends.

- I hope things work out. Good luck <3