Telling your mom not dad?

Question

okay here it goes ..........my mom lets my so call friend come over [[[boyfriend]] but i have to tell her hes my boyfriend so it be better together and spend time together ........problem is i dont know how to im worried that if i do she wont let him come in my room and play the wii.......hahaha[[[what she thinks]]............but theres consequences if i tell her

how do i start or should i tell her .

having him in my room and in my house alone is something i dont wanna ruin, we have no where else to go to be alone ...

Answer 1

Look you are young. I understand what its like to be young and want your privacy. But you should be honest it will make things easier bc if you are honest now with them later on they will be like wow I trust my daughter let them they can trust you.Believe me I have been there I was young once too.

Answer 2

Im sure she already knows somethings up so there's no point really in telling her. She knows a guy and a girl who are friends can still mess around so if I were I'd just leave it at a silent mutual agreement.

Answer 3

my parents still dont know that im going out with my boyfriend and they let him come over all the time

its really weird, him and my dad get along so we dont have to worry abot him

you dont need to tell them im not going to tell mine

good luck

( we play the wii in my room too ;)

Answer 4

do u mean ur having s*x or u just want privacy 2 urself and ur bf.

Answer 5

umm....just tell her that the time u have been spending with him you all have gained feelings for each other and then ask her if its ok if yall start going out..

Answer 6

if you don't put yourself in a position where it would be tempting to have s*x (ie your room alone with no supervision..) then it will be easier to keep the respect you have for yourself currently. please don't run off and do something with him because you CAN. think first.. you can't tell her that your bf is coming over.. how do you think you're going to react when you have to tell her you're pregnant?

this is all assuming you want privacy for intimate reasons.. even if you weren't planning on having s*x.. being alone in a room with your bf tends to lead to other things.. trust me. been there.