Tennager problemm helpp!?

Question

I am 12/13 and i dont have a bf :( and my parents said i cant have a bf until i am 20 how cruel is tht and cant i havea bf and hide it from them?

Answer 1

Well, you dont want to start hiding things from your parents, as they will never trust you if you do.

Why are they saying that? Have you dont silly things in your past?

And have you explained to them, why you want a boyfriend?

Make it clear to them, that its not like you are going to jump in bed with him (i hope you not anyway!)

Its natural to want a relationship, tell them that them doing that is going to make you want to do it more, and woudnt they rather that you tell them then have to hide it from them, they should think thats very mature of you, and should respect and appreciate your honesty.

Also, get the guy round to your place for your parents to meet them, if they happy with that

Answer 2

they are trying to look out for you.  parents know exactly what boys want.  as a parent & a man, i know EXACTLY what we want.  they probably also would like for you to concentrate on your school work and get your life in order before you get boy crazy.  There will be plenty of time in your life to fall in love.  you're not even in high school yet.  give life time to happen.  and i'm sure they were just kidding when they said 20.  or maybe hoping. but it will happen long before that.  so unlock your bedroom door and go back downstairs and be normal with your parents.

ohhh, they are religious nuts.  well you're so screwed.

Answer 3

Grow up

Answer 4

12/13 is really too young to have a boyf, i'd say, but i think 20 is unfair may be 14/15 would be ok.

they just dont want you to get into any trouble with boys don't hide stuff from them, they will never trust you.

can you not wait til your a bit older, say 15? boys will always be there, put your time into something you really like, like hobby, dancing or something.

enjoy your childhood - seriously before you know it it will be gone and you'll wish you were young again!, boyfriends can bring alot of trouble/worries, so just hang out with your girl friends and do fun stuff, you can have guys as close mates, even go to bowling, cinema with some but just enjoy having them as mates.

Answer 5

when u dont have someone to share ur feelings , u feel so. why dont u try to become closer to your mom  and share with her all problems. this is not the age to have bf

Answer 6

why do u want to go against your parents?be a good girl,i think u just want to get 1 because u want too p**s them off wait till u find the right person

Answer 7

You're much too young for a serious relationship. At your age, the most you should be doing with a boy is holding hands, hugging and occasionally giving each other a shy kiss. It's unfair of your parents to want you to be with a boy of the same faith as you in my opinion but I can understand why they don't want you to have a boyfriend. You have plenty of time for that (although 20 is a bit ridiculous).

Answer 8

look at the avatar for "tempting_butnothanks".....if he doesn't look like that, invite him to meet your parents and maybe you can convince them of your need to have someone to talk to your own age who is not able to get the scoop on everything going on in your house...and the topic of conversation is CHAPERONE.