Texting and GIRLS!!?

Question

I met a girl a little over a week ago, and we have been great friends, we talk every day, text, see each other, she brought me some stuff from the store she works at, i gave her something from the store i work at, everything seems happy joyful, so i figure come friday the good thing to do would be to ask her out, so i asked her if she would like to hang on friday, she said "Definitly", so come friday she doesnt text me until like 930pm, and grant it i am pissed because we made plans, but she told me she was tired and that her mom was coming home, whatever. I was really mad. i knew this was bs, everyday she talks to me, texts me until midnight, all of this c**p that shows me shes interested, but then this?> well what the heck? so she continues to text me and laugh and talk about stuff, then come today i asked her if she wants to go get something to eat, she tells me she would but she made plans. Whats her deal? Does she simply want to be aquantinces? if so- why does she continue to text me 100 times a day from early in the morning to late at night. what is this all about?

Answer 1

Ask here to do something with you one more time and set an exact time.  If she is busy and doesn't make other plans for another then stop talking to her and move on.

I might tell you to just relax.  If she doesnt like you its not the end of the world.  You are in control and you dont have to play her potential games.

Answer 2

mna... its been a week.

almost the same thing happed to me.

the txtng, the talking and the canceled plans

i memeber the first time i got to meet my girl. we would make plans but her parents came in the picture to ruin it c few times. of course i would get pissed.but she didnt know that.. i kept my cool. so i learned not to be so impulsive and learn that stuff deos happen. if u really want to go out tell her "i really want to .go out/ see you. this time". but tell her! and tell her how u feel then. it worked for me

Answer 3

Dude.  You're overreacting.  It seems as if she were just busy.  As for today, she made plans.  Relax.  Lol.  She obviously likes you.  Next time, instead of asking her out via text, call her or ask her in person.  The day you're supposed to go out, call her up and say how are you?  and when do you want me to pick you up?  You got this, don't trip.  

Answer 4

She might be playing games. Maybe attempt one more time to hang out with her, ask her when is good for her... and if she flakes NEXT.

Answer 5

maybe she is playing hard to get

Answer 6

Hmm, maybe give it another week or two? Maybe she doesn't want to jump into anything. Or just ask her whats up. I've done that with a guy who did nearly the same thing, led me on then flaked. Turns out he was never worth my time from the beginning.