Texts from the ex, is he cheating? ?

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Texts from the ex? is he cheating?

We've been going out only 2 months now, we've had a rough time (unplanned pregnancy, miscarriage, financial worries) but we've worked thru it. Then, the other day & for no reason at all, I had a look at his phone & saw "I love you" texts from who knows? Upon realising the "danger" he immediately grabbed his phone & started acting all weird on me. Then he asked me "what's wrong?" Later he explains they were texts to his old phone & he'd just swapped SIM cards & I should've checked the date of the texts (as in, before my time). However, I'm still wondering why he would keep such things in the 1st place and secondly, why would he get so defensive about it?

Thanks for all your answers! cheery

Answer 1

How did you manage to meet, get pregnant, miscarry, and have financial troubles in 2 months?  

Answer 2

Depending on your definition of cheating I would say he's cheating!

He might not be porking but he's making himself available.

Answer 3

I was going to ask the same question as Annabell.

Allot of men have a plan B, or like to think they do.

Know one seems to keep a diary any more, and they was usually kept by females, but now men can keep a record of some nice things said to them by women via the internet and mobile phones, we are said not to have a good a memory as females, so keeping old c**p sent by exes is nothing to worry about.

You can always ask him if he wants to live in the past or the future.

May i ask,, have you got anything on your mobile you would not like him to see ?

Answer 4

so where is the ex part?you say nothing about an ex.

Answer 5

Sounds like this relationship is destined to fail.  In only two months time, you have had an unplanned pregnancy, a miscarriage, and there is already financial worries.  Get rid of him.  He is irresponsible (and so are you) for having unprotected s*x, and there is no reason for financial worries in the beginning of a relationship.  There should have been no relationship in the first place if there were financial worries involved.  You both need to get your financial problems problems in order before either of you start a new relationship.

He is probably cheating anyway, if he jumped so quickly.  If it really was another sim card, he should have deleted those messages already.

Answer 6

then i would've said "well, give me the phone back so i can look at the dates."