That b**** wants my guy...PLEASE HELP!?

Question

so on the first day of school i met this guy named Will and i really wanted to get to know him better so i like him now and i want to go out with him...so i wanted him to be offlimits to my friends (you don't date who your friends like, you know?). so my bff is like "I wanna ask out Will he's so coool" and im like "do you even know him"

and she goes well not yet...but wtf??? i liked him first and he talks to me and doesn't even know her name...WHAT DO I TELL HER?

Answer 1

Tell her the truth. You liked him first and you had the first interest. To avoid any huge drama blow up, make sure you say it in a loving caring way instead of being too harsh. Let her know about the things you and him have in common that she doesn't. In the end, it all depends on if the guy will connect with you or her more, based on compatibility.

Answer 2

Ok you do not tell her anything because that guy will choose and go out with whoever he wants. It can be you you friend or maybe he does not even like you or your friend so don't get mad at you friend if he likes her and they go out.  

Answer 3

don't call her n e rude names and just tell her how u feel  maybe your both should just let him go0  don't fight her im mean like don't ruin a friendship over some guy come on now she your best friend =]

Answer 4

oh..they pointless lives of teenagers

Answer 5

well, try out ur luck by askin wat he's thinkin bout u. if u see a biright pic of both of u, then, carry on. if not, pass him to ur fren.

there are many other guys out there for u though.

gud luck~

Answer 6

Hit her.

Answer 7

You have two choices.

You either tell her that you have serious feelings for him and might want him as a boyfriend, and see her answer.

or

You go with the philosophy that

"All's fair in *love* and war."

If you want him, ask him out before she does and secure him as yours.

Answer 8

tell da gurl you like him!

she'll never kno til u tell her.

Answer 9

this whole thing is too much stress for someone your age, i would let it pass. its all meaningless anyways

Answer 10

Oh you girls are SO mean to each other and I mean all the girls around the world.  The competition is on may the best girl win.  Better yet why don't you Betty and Veronica with him.  You both share him.. Its only fair to you and your friend.

Answer 11

omg that's sooo mean!

tell her that your gonna go ask out aron! if she gets mad, then be like "i won't ask aaron out if you don't ask will?"

check out his package and go for it

Answer 12

if shes a tru friend she will understand so tell her hands off any way u guys will make up even if she dosent like wutu say

Answer 13

dont ruin your relatiobnship with your friend over a boy.

or ***** FIGHT!

Answer 14

don't say anything. Step your game up and let her know whats up.

Answer 15

if u said u met him the first day of school then u dont know him either..and tell u the truth she beat u too it.... nd if u told ur bff that u like the dude before u even told her that u liked him then thas yo fault...but this is how bff split!!!!!always because of the same reason...SO would u leave ur bff for a bf?

Answer 16

That's messed up situation. Well first of all like you said, you dont even know if he'll even talk to her. Maybe he'll just brush her off that'll get her off his back as well as yours. But if things don't go that way then talk to your friend and tell her how you feel, if she really is your friend then hopefully she'll back off but if not then be careful because that means that she really wasn't your friend. Be Careful and Good Luck :-)

Answer 17

Look,

a friend ship  will last longer then a fling for a guy. Don't lose her over someone, who later you might learn you didn't like him as much as you thought you did. Or he wasn;t worth it.

Just talk with your friend and remind her that you guys are friends and let's not let this " guy thang" get in the way of us.

I think since you  but like him, you  both need to walk away from him.

And Keep The Peace!!!!

Answer 18

What are you talking about? She can date who ever she wants. You don´t own this guy. You are not even dating him. Does he even like you?

Don´t be so selfish.

Its all about what you want.. isn´t it!

Answer 19

Call her a ****..haha!

Answer 20

Tell her

"why would he degrade himself by even thinking about being wiht you?"

Walk away

Or tell her he has herpes.

That'll keep her away

Answer 21

Sorry to say, he's not your guy.  

Keeping him away from other girls will not make him love you more, it will just suffocate him.

Imagine the satisfaction if she throws herself at him but he only wants to go out with you.

Or, if he does want to go out with her, at least you find out before your emotions are deeply invested

Answer 22

explain to her how you feel about him and if she's a true friend she'll go after someone else. You don't have dibs just because you know him if I were you I would just beat her to the chase and ask him out. Other wise stop griping, and if you were a good friend you wouldn't have called her a B****

Answer 23

Don't call your friend a b it ch, for starters. Simply tell her that you would appreciate her not asking him out, because you liked him first. If she doesn't get it, then talk to him about it. If he likes her more than you, then you're out of luck.

Answer 24

well for one don't put guys before friends

it's the worst mistake you can make

did you talk to her about him cause if not then how was she supposed to know? you can't stop other people from liking people anyways.. what if he liked her and not you? just because he knows your name and talks to you doesn't mean hes interested in you all she would have to do is go tell him her name and start talking to him and shed be at the same level with him as you

Maybe you should just tell her that you like him a lot and you've had your eye on him since the first day of school and you've been talking and stuff but don't make it sound like your competitng or anything cause she might take you up on it and try and get him herself and then you never know.. she might win

Answer 25

Tell her you like him and to back off tell her she can have him when you are done.  

Answer 26

What's with all these d**n girly issues?

Ever heard of survival of the fittest? If you want him first then ask him first.

Answer 27

yeaaahhhh... have you read your own question to yourself. Im gonna say the same thing i always say. go, look in the mirror, point to yourself and say " the world, does not revolve around this" and continue onward with this ritual until you believe it.  

Answer 28

You sound to insecure to even consider being in a relationship with

Answer 29

All's fair in love and war and he's not "your" guy YET. Ask him out before she gets to  know him and beats you to it.

Answer 30

beat her ***