The 3 biggest mistakes or regrets ever?

Question

What are your 3 top biggest mistakes or regrets you have made in your entire life? And please say what they are and any advice.

THANKS

My top 3:

1. Not being brave enough to speak up and ask what was happening ~ advices speak up more

2. getting to close to people ~ advise don't let your heart get to close to people

3. Not telling someone how I truly feel, I still have the chance but I don't have the guts to say what needs to be said

Answer 1

1) Getting married the first time.

2) Getting married the second time.

   (I should have learned from the first mistake.)

3) Having an affair with a married man after my first divorce.

I do not regret my 4 beautiful children. I'd still have them but it would be with a different father.

Answer 2

I try not to believe in regrets. But I definitely believe in mistakes.

My top 3 MISTAKES:

1. Meeting my biological father. He was an *** and my parents knew that and I should have trusted their view on him. They were right.

2. The day before my grandma died I had an urge to call her. Then I got busy and said, "Oh I'll just do it tomorrow!". Well tomorrow never came for her.

3. Rekindling my friendship with a girl from elementary school. She turned on me and her and another girl bullied me so bad I had to drop out of school. The school wouldn't really help.

Answer 3

everyone has regrets, i can name sooo many.. but then when i really think about them, i realize that by me thinking of the regretful things i was able to not repeat those mistakes. and all the things in my past made me who i am today.

thats what you need to do. you need to appreciate who you are today and think of those things from the past, those things only can make you stronger!

as for some advice on your top 3, i would say... make sure you always live each and every day with no regrets. say what you want to say always.. and if there is someone who you get close to and they end up hurting you.. remember the pain will only last for a certain amount of time, and again once you over come that pain you will be even STRONGER!!

(you are not guaranteed tomorrow so live the best of today! each day is a gift thats why they call it "present"!!)

good luck to you!

Answer 4

telling michelle who i liked in 5th grade

never thinking what im im doing before i do it

trusting callie

Answer 5

I don't have any regrets, everything that I have done in my life has made me who I am. Sure, I've done dumb things like lost my virginity to a guy who didn't deserve it, and maybe I shouldn't have started smoking at fourteen, but those decisions have created the person I am today. I think regretting stuff is pointless because its not like I can go back in time a fix it, so why fret over it now?

Answer 6

1. dating a guy as a freshaman, who had a car... lead to some bad things, don't date short horny 16 year old boys who drive their daddy's mustangs.

2. don't p**s off your parents... leads to bad relationships and heartache.

3. open up your heart more, but be choosy who you open it up to... no real advise for that.

Answer 7

1. For talking to my cousin about things that i wasn't even allowed to talk about... basically for trusting family.

2. I regret not phoning my sister on an odd day and talking to her.. Before i knew, she died even before i had the chance to tell her how much she meant to me.

3. For the things i have said to my mom at some point in my life.