The 4rt of loosing my virginitys dawnting due to lack of exprince,is there anyway i cn boost my selfasteem????

Question

no laughing im 17 x x lol x x

Answer 1

Don't panic...we have all been there!  s*x is daunting for everyone, and the best thing you can do it wait until it is with someone you love, and you feel confident with them.  You will know when it is right, and you will feel as confident as ever!

The more you worry the harder it will be!

Answer 2

Do you think other virgins are "experienced", no! Just have confidence and make sure it is with someone you love, or at least like, well maybe if they are real cute, ok anyone who is willing!

Answer 3

confidance , and read the karma sutra , and maybe watch some p**n and get some tips

Answer 4

Don't do it until you are ready. Be patient. Having s*x freaks me out and I'm 20.

Answer 5

Don't write her a thank you note. Your grammar is appalling.  

Answer 6

If you wait till you're happy with someone you wont have any troubles with self esteem. I personally don't like the answers saying to wait until marriage and all will be fine - being surely yes you would love that person, but the pressure to have s*x on your honeymoon and how that person has never really seen your body could be very off putting.

I think the best way is basically to just find a nice guy, and just take it slow. Such as from when you start dating of feeling each others legs over jeans, to then holding them slipping your hands around their waist just under the top and just progress like that through foreplay too (just dont do anything that you or your partner doesnt like or want to try as it'll ruin the moment) and then it'll just seem natural when it comes to losing it in the end. plus if they're not happy to go slowly like that, then whats the point in being with them - the exploring part is the fun part so why skip it?!

so simply don't worry about trying to boost your self esteem, or think about losing you virginity. it'll come naturally when you find someone you like, which will come when you least expect it.

Answer 7

Take a spelling class instead.

Answer 8

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Don't have s*x! duh

Answer 9

Learn to read and write.

Or at least use a spellchecker. Someone went to a lot of trouble to design it and integrate it in Yahoo! answers, yet you must have ignored 7 warnings in a single sentence.  That must be a record?

Answer 10

wait till you are married!  There is no point in losing your virginity because you feel pressured!  

Wait till you are ready!  You don't feel ready because you are too young!

To boost self esteem, add years!

Answer 11

It's always gonna be a daunting thing, and no one will ever be able to tell you what to do coz every experience is different. The best way to ensure it runs as smoothly as possible is to make sure you're with someone you care about, who cares about you, and that you are both ready for it. it's probably gonna be awkward, everyone's first time is, and it'll give you something to laugh about in the future!

Answer 12

loosing your virginity is terrifying

make sure its with the right person or you'll regret it the rest of your life...trust me I know

But you just need to take it slow...nothing can really prepare you for it. If you have a boyfriend, try some foreplay maybe? could help

Answer 13

it will always be scary but just do it with the right person and wait until its with someone u trust also dont rush into anything good luck!!

Answer 14

You will be ok when the time is right.