The AP's to my child were the only suspects.....?

Question

in my case. A few weeks after the long drawn out adoption went thru, and it was about 8 - 9 months after I was told I couldn't see my daughter anymore, someone broke into my townhouse. I was attacked and kidnapped. I escaped. This happened a number of years ago. The AP's had divorced when they were both questioned. The Adad was asked to submit to a polygraph to eliminate him as a suspect. I think they also might have asked if they could have a swab of DNA. He got an attorney and said, "no". Then he moved out of that jurisdiction immediately, after living there his entire life. Because I waited a few years to come forward with the information, I think there was only so much the police could do. The police said that whoever did it either knew me really well or had been watching me for a long time and their intent was to kill me. Trust me on this, I can't give out alot of details. My question is, has anyone else been through something like this?

Answer 1

I am so sorry, that is freakin' awful, but no, have never been kidnapped

Answer 2

Oh my Gosh no. I had nothing like that. Just the usual empty feelin inside for what seemed like forever.

I'm so sorry that happened to you. Maybe a little over zealoused about being their ONLY parents, dang.

Answer 3

This is certainly a nightmare.  I hope you get the help you need soon.

Where was the birthfather in this situation?  Could it have been him?

Why would you not have come forward immediately if you thought the adoptive parents of your child were potential murderers?  Weren't you so afraid for your child?

There are plenty of women and men who can relate to what you have been through.  People are kidnapped, or taken from their home, in this country fairly often.  The Doe Network works to identify the thousands of women who have been  abducted from their homes or in public and never seen again.  

Try to contact a victim support group in your are through your county Social Services department, or through the police.

Good luck to you.

Answer 4

HOLY FREAKING MOLY.

i don't even know what to say.

i haven't been through this no. I am so sorry.

Answer 5

OMG Red.

No - I've never been through something similar.

I'm so sorry that you did.

How terrifying.

I do hope that your daughter is OK.

Hugz.

Answer 6

Hey Red,

Losing a child to adoption is enough of a horror story: I'm sorry that you suffered physical violations in addition to losing your daughter. Your experience sounds very scary. I hope you are able to make some progress on the case.

So many adoption attorneys out there, so many who could not care less about the mothers of loss, no matter what injustices we faced.

(((((((((hugs))))))))))

Answer 7

Never heard of anything like that, that's terrible!

Answer 8

Oh. My. God.

Red, that is HORRIBLE!!!

Oh, great big ((((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))) to you!!!

I wish I could say something but I'm knocked speechless. I am SO sorry that happened to you. And to think your daughter is with these people. Oh, that is just so sick!

Yes, absolutely you should have counseling. It was a sanity-saver for me. And I went through nothing like that.

My dad was kidnapped in his car trunk, and driven around to various ATMs to take out money, and then left in the trunk. And that was horrible, of course, but what happened to you was worse, because it was so personal and his wasn't.

I wish healing for you. Please take care of yourself and let those that love you take care of you.