The best week of my life is over and I'm crushed. Please help (serious answers please)?

Question

I went to this summer camp with my friend who is a guy this week and now it's all over. It's has been the best week EVER. Truly amazing. It's over and I'm sooooo upset. I made so many friends and had soooo much fun. I am practically crying right now. I am serious. I have being through alot of dark times and having such a good week this summer has made a huge impact on me. I will do it next year BUT I don't know if the same people will be there. They looked like they had a ball but I can't be sure if they'll show up next year and as well there are 4 weeks each 2 in separate months.

As well there was this guy who is really nice and I liked him. He might have liked me because he was staring at me alot and smiled at me lots and I might not ever see him ever again!

I've never had someone to turn to and help me. My parents won't take is serious and my friends will laugh at me.

Please help I am really upset.

Thank you.

Answer 1

try calling the camp you went or the person that ran the camp, and ask for the name of the person your looking for then they will find your parents and u got the number girl!

Answer 2

Everyone goes through things throughtout their life like this. I have learned not to believe it is over. Did you get anyones e-mail address or other info. You can get together again or contact them on line or the phone. If you haven't done that see if you can get ahold of the camp director & get a list of phone numbers or addresses & tell them you would like to have re-unions. You are going to go back to school & meet some greet people & wonder why you thought that group was the only one.

Answer 3

It would help if you actually asked a question!

Answer 4

I'm always crushed when a good time is over so I do know what you mean.  I would make sure you keep in touch with everyone by having their phone number/e-mail/ and addresses.  Keep in mind too that as time goes by, you'll be okay.  Do you have a best friend near you, she would probably be a good person to talk to, if not then she isn't a good friend.  Make new plans with family and friends and keep your live healthy by planning cool events every week.  ( They don't even have to be expensive) I know that whenever I have plans coming up in the weekend I get excited!

It's awesome that you said it made an impact on your life, sounds VERY healthy so you should be estactic that you had thatopportunityy since most people do not.

If you don't have the phone number of the guy you liked, see if you can research it from the other people you met.  If your under the age of 18, rememberthat you will meet MANY guys that will make your heart skip a beat.  Sounds easy to say I know.. but it's true.

My biggest advice is keep your life full and interesting.. and keep doing things to met new people! Don't sit at home and be sad!

Answer 5

Did you get anyone's phone numbers or email addresses?  If so, you could try to organize to do it all over again next year.  You are lucky that you have such a great memory now.  Time will heal your hurt.

Answer 6

You have a good time but did you ever think if anybody besides yourself was having a good time?

Answer 7

The way you opened up and enjoyed yourself last week - try to do that now that you are back home.

Look for new people to meet and make friends with.

Be open to meeting and getting to know guys.

Don't look at it as the best week being over, look at it as the beginning of the best year ever, the best decade ever, etc.  

Answer 8

Im glad you had the best week - so far. trust me, you will have a lot more wonderful experiences in life. im guessing you are about 15 - 16 and honestly, there is so much more to look forward to.

and remember, if you meet someone at a camp or something, and you truly enjoy their company, give them your email. we live in the day & age where keeping in touch is as easy as pressing "send". and an email address is a safe way to keep in touch without compromising your safety. i do NOT suggest giving out your phone number.

and have fun! life is awesome when you realize that it is what you make of it, no summer camp or other person can make your life better than you can make it!

Answer 9

Are you never going to see this guy friend again? You can't have lost contact with him so quickly? It doesn't have to be over just because it was summer camp. Talk to him and find out if he wants to continue seeing you. If he does, great! If he doesn't, its not the end of the world. There are plenty of opportunities for you to meet people, make friends and date great guys- don't get caught up in this one experience. And treasure it for the great time that it was, don't be sad that its over but be glad that it happened. It could've been just another crappy week. You're young and probably very gifted, interesting and fun, so enjoy your youth, your friends and whatever chances at romance you get! You'll be fine, just remember that your life should be about YOU and not some guy who doesn't call or some summer camp you spent a week at. Good luck!

Answer 10

Why don't you stay in contact with your friends by email, myspace, IM or phone.  You can have many more good weeks in your life.  Try to think positive even though it is hard sometimes.  You opened up and made friends you can do it again.