The first thing when we go to bed my boyfriend puts in his earbuds and listens to his iPod. Is that normal?

Question

The first thing when we go to bed my boyfriend puts in his earbuds and listens to his iPod. Is that normal?

Answer 1

move to another bed and if he complains , just say ."well we are not married and so i can sleep where i like."

Answer 2

what the h**l does he clip it to??! (hope he's at least listening to Barry White loud enough so you can hear it)

Answer 3

Ask him first. He might not notice that he does that all the time. Tell him you don't find that normal and see what will happen. Good luck.

Answer 4

it's probably how he grew up

i often i listen to my ipod when going to sleep

it's just because i love music and it helps me get to sleep

sometimes its about blocking things out (like when people are too loud) and other times its just to soothe me for my own benefit

for the best answer i think you should ask him

Answer 5

It could be that your boyfriend just likes to listen to music before going to sleep.  Only if you feel that it is affecting your relationship (for example, that he is listening to music to avoid intimacy with you) should you be worried about it.

Answer 6

if i were you,i'd feel mighty insulted! i don't think it's normal at all!

Answer 7

It wouldn't be normal at my house, but it's something that you two have to decide.