The generic cheating question...?

Question

I have always been in love with this guy, for the last 8 months all I've wanted is to be with this guy. Well he lived too far away, 400 miles. So I slowly pushed him to one side in my mind and decided to get on with my life. A few weeks later I met my boyfriend. He's a lovely guy and would walk to the ends of the world for me and I love him too... Just not in the same way I love the other guy.

Me and the other guy decided to meet up the other day in Cornwall. I ended up having s*x with him on the beach. When I came home the first thing I did was tell my boyfriend, as he deserves to know and because I felt so guilty. He wasn't happy. Infact he cried and was sick. But he didn't condemn me for cheating. Instead he said that he didn't mind and that he still wants to be with me after cheating on him.

I don't deserve him. Should I finish with him so that I don't hurt him again and so that he can meet a nice new girl who will love him as much as he loves me?

Answer 1

yes

Answer 2

You obviously do not love him.  No offense but you are a *****.  Why would you do that?  Imagine if he cheated on you?  Did you ever think that.

Answer 3

Maybe.....or you could work on it together.      All of us are 'unworthy' in some measure.

Answer 4

he must honestly love you to stay with you, if you are gonna cheat on him again "i don't want to hurt him again" you don't deserve him. don't say you want to end it so he can be happy when in reality it is you that wants to not feel guilty when you cheat.

Answer 5

Yes, especially if you plan on cheating on him again. Better leave him now as you obviously does not love him.

Answer 6

yes leave him

you have done it once and got away with it so you will do it time and time again and walk all over the guy he deserves better

Answer 7

Yes....You are a tramp!  You deliberately toyed with this guys heart knowing that you would cheat on him.  Why would you meet this other guy in Cornwall if you were not going to cheat with him.  I bet you didn't tell your current boyfriend that you were going to meet this other guy which means subconsciously you knew that if the opportunity to have s*x with him appeared you would take it.

You are a tramp.

Answer 8

I think you love and lust the other guy and you have more feelings for him than for your bf...the right thing in this case is to leave him as he will be miserable by your side if you don't have strong feelings for him and you plan to do it again with the other lad. Be fair with him, it is not nice to see your other half suffering for you!

Answer 9

If you are aware that you don't deserve him, then leave him. If you feel you are not meant to be, give your bf the chance to be happy and to feel loved.

What are your chances with the other guy? are you sure he loves you? Cause for most of the guys, one night doesnt mean much.

Good luck!