The girl I am dating?

Question

Her birthday is approaching. We are not quite 'b/f and g/f' yet, so I don't know what to do? We are both in our 20s and neither of us are the party type. I don't want to come across as obsessed, but nor do I want to look like a jerk who doesn't care.

Answer 1

You should do a cup-cake scavenger hunt for her and some other, mutual friends (between 4 and 6 people - you may want to order food or head out for a light meal, too). Just 5 or so stops on the hunt will do - it can be done in or around your apartments/homes, or in a park. Buy the cupcakes on the cheap at the local grocery store and get some of the little candles or cake decorating plastics to put in them to make them unique and stash them around. Insist on having her on your team to find the cakes if you want extra flirt time.

It shows you care, shows you are willing to make the effort, and involves others so you won't seem greedy or creepy. Plus, she won't have a big cake sitting around for weeks after her birthday.

Answer 2

Buy or make her a cake or brownies or something she likes or take her out somewhere to dinner (not too expensive, maybe just a burger place, like Red Robin if you have one..if she eats meat) and get her a funny birthday card, this way it shows you remembered her birthday, but you aren't buying her something too grand like jewerly which is definantly a confirmed relationship present. Good Luck!

Answer 3

A card with movie ticket passes in it.  If you give her two passes she will probably use them with you.  If she doesn't she can take one of her friends along.  Either way she will like it and it isn't too pushy.  It is just letting her know you like her and would like to go on another date.

Answer 4

Ask her what she'd like to do. Let her know that you know her b-day is  coming and you'd like to celebrate with her.

Answer 5

Take her out to dinner and a movie.

Answer 6

Get her an empty box with a hole at the bottom the when she is not looking sit your wang in the hole when she opens it up..... surprise wang bang sweet pun tang baby. if she doesn't accept this then whip out some chocolates and a bed of red and yellow roses this always works when you are not officially boyfriend and girl friend!

Answer 7

I am assuming you are looking for advice on what to do for her on her birthday?

Take her out for a nice dinner.

Answer 8

A book would be a nice gift (if She's a reader).  Even a CD of one of Her favorite Artists.   Something simple - it's the thought that counts.

Answer 9

Make her a cake- it's not huge, but you have to take the time to do it, so it will show you care without being too over the top

Answer 10

Dude, it shouldn't matter if you're bf and gf yet. Everyone likes to be appreciated on their birthday. Don't bake her a cake, you're right, that's kind of crossing the line if it's a casual relationship. But you could definitely ask to take her out to dinner, but if she has something planned, ask if she'd like to go another time.

Point is, do something! It's her birthday, don't sit around and wait.

Answer 11

give her some nice perfume. and maybe a gift card to a store or resturant to give you something that you can do together.

Answer 12

bring her flowers and take her out to dinner if she doesnt already have plans made with anyone else. if she does take her out on a different night for her birthday. this is a nice thing to do and it doesnt make you seem obbsessed...

good luck.

Answer 13

I found this website, it's www.findgift.com.  They've got a lot of really cool, unique ideas.  From random and totally out of the ordinary to very traditional.  You can even enter in the occasion and your relationship with the person and it will suggest gifts.  It's awesome because you can find very personal ways to express that you care about someone, without spending a grip.  Check it out.

Answer 14

Tell her you would like to take her to dinner for her birthday...It's simple but will be appreciated I'm sure. If you know her friends, you could ask them if they are planning anything.. and if you could contribute.

Answer 15

take her out  to  dinner on her b-day

somewhere nice and casual

Answer 16

just a small present will do.

pressense is better than presents.