The groups we reject shows us who we are just as much as the groups we choose to join.?

Question

can anyone give me a few pointers?

Answer 1

Our choices in all areas of life eventually define who we are and how we are perceived by others.  Thus, it is important to look before you leap.  Many people have regretted impetuous decisions during their youth which adversely impacted their professional adult lives later on.  Always consider the consequences of any step you may take.