The kids I'm babysitting like me too much?...?

Question

I've done my fair share of babysitting over the years (I'm 17). Usually everything goes well, but I've had the same problem every time: I think they like me too much, to the point where they don't really listen to what I tell them to do. I'm funny, I play games with them and make them laugh all the time. I can tell they all look up to me, especially the boys. But take today for example: I was babysitting a 4 year old boy, and an 8 or 9 year old girl. The girl is for the most part very well behaved. She's incredibly nice, and loved me babysitting her. The boy is nice too, but not as well behaved. He's not TOO bad, but he jumps all over me and occasionally throws things.

What I think is the problem? I think they both want my attention really really badly. They constantly want me to look at something. And I do. But then the boy will start doing something bad, or jumping aggressively all over me. I'm all up for fun and games, but when I tell him to stop climbing on me he laughs (continued)

Answer 1

Your situation isn't uncommon with young babysitters.  You spend your time being their friend.  The problem is that you haven't set any limits for their behavior.  Creating discipline is a matter of being firm and consistent.  That is a lot harder to do than it is to say as any parent knows.  You need to decide (first for yourself) what you are willing to allow them to do.  If climbing on you is ok, fine.  If you think it is unacceptable, you need to make sure it is always unacceptable.  The children will learn quickly if you are consistent.