The last month i have been really depressed and....

Question

its all because of school and because my grandpa died 2 weeks ago and my dad walked out on us. i really dont want to go to school because everybody treats me really bad at the school i go to and i have begged my mom to home school me and she keeps saying no. how do i convince her to home school me???

Answer 1

Home schooling takes a huge commitment on the part of the parent and student. It should be done only when parents have the time, ability, and determination to educate their children at home, and when the student is able to stay organized, commit to the task, and work independently.  Unless this describes you and your mom, it won't solve your problems.

With your grandpa passing away and your dad leaving, it sounds as though your mom has a lot to deal with.  I can't imagine that she's in a good position to start home schooling now.

But still, you're feeling depressed, and you need your mother's help.  You and your mother should work together to address your grief and find a solution to the problems at school.  What about talking to your school counselor?  S/he is trained to help with both of these issues.

What do you mean when you say everybody is "treating you badly?"  Are you being harassed or bullied?  If that's the case, definitely report it.   If the school won't do anything about it, you might have the option to change schools.  

Take care of yourself.  You're going through some hard things, but it won't last. Get help.  If you can deal with the school issues, it will be a good thing to get back into the routine and a busy social environment.  

Answer 2

yeah i dont have a dad and those (sensored) at school dont treat me too well, im okay with it just express yourself

Answer 3

Well first off I would recommend a psychiatrist. I see one and im depressed. But thats because i've attempted suicide. But you can really just let everything out to them and they don't tell your parents unless someone is being abused, you want to hurt someone, or you want to hgurt yourself. They are big on confadenciality. They could perscribe you some anti-depresssants. I take lexapro. I call it team lexapro. well I didn't answer your question at all but I hope I helped!

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Also i'm sorry for your loss.

Answer 4

home schooling is not gonna help you...

its only gonna hide u from the world, makin u worse it will be good for u to get back to school maybe it will take ur mind off things...

i would talk to ur mom tell her how ur feeling i suggest u see a counselor to help u through this difficult time.

Answer 5

Well my grandad died when i was 6 and im now 13 one thing i know he wants from you is to be happy and just live life to the fullest!! Now at school if people treat you bad don't take it stand up for yourself!! And maybe just meet new people let them know your not a bad or weird person cause im sure that your a great person just going through a bad time!!

Answer 6

Maybe you could transfer school's instead, and I'm sorry about your problems sweetheart, but I promise they will get better just let God lead the way, and if you can't transfer school's then find some friends that you feel comfortable being around, and don't let people get you sown, because there will always be people like that so you just have to get use to it now...

Answer 7

Home-Schooling is a really big responsibility for a person.

Try going to your school counselor and talking to them, plus you get out of class.